人際關係一問

2007-10-16 5:46 pm
怎樣可令多d人中意你
成為朋友

之前試個真心付心個心比一個女仔
如男友一樣好中意
不開心 想到甚都找她的
由F.1到了F.2不同班
性格變了及出賣我

令我相信根本冇永遠既朋友
對嗎

回答 (3)

2007-10-16 7:09 pm
>怎樣可令多d人中意你, 成為朋友

代人以誠、有禮貌、隨和、肯幫助別人、主動跟人分享、發展多方面興趣、有內涵(說話言之有物)。

>之前試個真心付心個心比一個女仔,如男友一樣好中意,不開心 想到甚麼都找她的,由F.1到了F.2不同班,性格變了及出賣我

每個人都會成長,性格和價值觀會改變,不能責怪任何人變了,更不要自己鑽牛角尖。

>令我相信根本冇永遠既朋友,對嗎?

人生幾十年,何必追尋虛無縹緲的永遠,只要在每個人生階段有真誠的朋友便已足夠。
2007-10-16 6:48 pm
你想多d人喜歡你其實唔萛好難,只要性格隨和,待人有禮貌,樂於助人,做事大方不會斤斤計較就ok了!
同時盡量保持心境樂觀開朗,臉帶笑容,因為每個人都喜歡接近開心的人而避開黑口黑瞼或太嚴肅冷漠的人呀!
至於能否結識到知心的好朋友或者友誼是否能夠永遠保持,這是很難有一個準則的,友誼的發展是雙向的,就是雙方是否都一樣重視保持這段友情,而時間及環境變化都會影響每個人的想法!
無論如何,真心待朋友是不會錯的,能夠成為知己朋友是要靠緣份了,因為由陌生人成為朋友已經是好開始,還要志趣相投有共同話題感情才會更進一步,能否保持下去只有盡力而為吧!
也不是沒有永遠的朋友,很多人少年時結識的好朋友直到老年仍可保持聯繫,有空時仍會相聚閒話家常呀!
參考: 我的意見
2007-10-16 6:06 pm
frist of all,u can't be that negative about the concept of no foever fds~!!!if u dun believe that,how could u get ur fds?!actually,u should be more positive n active in participating ur fds' activity or may be u could even choose to organse some activities for u all in order to increase the chance of getting together.then u should be gentle n nice to the others.trust me~!gentlements r welcomed by others.of cox,gd sense of humour could win lots of fds loving u~!!!since u could always be happy n even make others to be happy when they r with u, being humourous could help u a lot.
about no forever fds,actually u should think about there r some of ur fds still be with u,right?they didn't do nth to hurt u~!!!try to think about the positive side n u would discover that still u got lots of fds apart fr her.

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