錢銀問題!!好難決策!!

2007-10-06 8:22 pm
我男朋友要我同佢一齊儲錢買一輛非常名貴ge車價值50萬!!!我就打份牛工,
平時佢又會問我借下錢之類,但我五知咁樣做會五會好蠢,
我又未同佢結婚,咁樣付出!!!!會五會係蠢女人ge做法!!!佢同我一齊五知係五係為左部車而同我一齊呢,,,,...人地講女朋友最好就五好借錢比男朋友....係大忌黎.....
我跟本五知值五值得咁付出

回答 (4)

2007-10-06 9:24 pm
✔ 最佳答案
首先你係一定唔好'借'俾佢,原因係 -
1)車..係咪日常必須品先...肯定唔係啦
2)50萬..去買樓,買股票invest賺下錢好過啦
3)如果一齊儲錢計劃將來結婚or一齊生活,開個bank聯名戶口就得

有左基本生活需要先諗啲奢侈品啦,有左架名貴車之後重有好多額外支出,你應該諗到,唔洗我多講

你有可能覺得我老套+太現實, but你要向壞方面諗,如果佢真係買到部車之後又同你分手,咁你咪人財兩失...

如果你真係好'愛'佢,又想千就佢,咪同佢講買架平啲車囉

女人..就一定要儲番啲私己錢,男朋友or老公都唔好俾佢知呀,無咩特別,只係為自己or屋企人作打算姐,以備不時之須呀...明唔明..

我一定年紀比你大,過來人呀..重有 - 你要記住家人先係最緊要,一生不變..但係男朋友or老公就可以簡過個好架...祝你好運啦!
參考: my opinion
2007-10-06 10:31 pm
Please don't be silly. I think he is not a well planner and he is not mature enough to love. He just think about what he want and what he wish to own, including u. Please ask yourself is he really love u?Wish you know how to do. If u really him or he really love u, i think u can have a talk with him and try to have a better money management. Further, try to understand his life plan and life attitude, see is there any way to work with and to tune about. Good luck. To be a clever lover.
參考: self
2007-10-06 8:38 pm
首先, 佢無咁大個頭, 又要帶咁大頂帽, 都俾人覺得呢個男人好唔踏實.....既然唔夠錢買, 又點解要選擇一架咁貴嘅車呢??? 咁選擇都算, 仲要女朋友一齊供, 實在比較離譜!!!!!

一齊儲錢都唔係為咗同你結婚, 而係買車, 你就真係要小心諗吓呢個人值唔值得你花青春&金錢......一齊儲錢買唔等於同你"借", 即係他日有咩事都好, 一個仙都唔需要還俾你

我意見係, 既然對方都無長遠打算, 無謂將咁大嘅負擔擺上自己身上, 有錢俾多d父母好過啦, 掉錢落架車度, 除咗你男友一個人開心, 都無其他好處

男人最重要係有責任感, 唔係虛榮感, 希望你明白啦.......

你記住要對自己好d, 你唔係別人嘅附屬品, 加油呀
2007-10-06 8:37 pm
連買架車都無能力既話,點養你呀!
不過,感情既野就唔係用錢黎衡量既!最緊要係佢對你好唔好!如果好既話,咁你就睇下你可以包容到幾多lor!

如果對你都唔係好既話,咁就算吧啦!

祝你好運!

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