I need help with my sister!?

you need to sit down with her and your mom and just explain how you feel and have your mom explain to her how much she loves her and that she would love to get to know her kids and would love to have them around and explain that she is close to you and your daughter because you guys have been around longer. make her feel real comfortable and maybe you guys could both invite her over a couple times a week and her kids and do things such as going out to eat, to the park, etc. also make sure your mom has some alone time with your sister and her kids and also it is important for you to have alone time with her also. she just needs to be reassured and even if you have to go alittle bit out of your way to do it and if your mom has to do the same its just until she gets comfortable and until you guys get to know her kids better then I am sure things will get better and you guys wont have to try so hard. also when your child is around and your sisters kids are around try to make sure your mom treats them all equallly and not to give your child to much attention, even though it might not happen without her realizing it just because she has been around her longer, but especially in the beg. you dont want your sister to feel like "see i was right my mom does give more attention to her than my own kids"
maybe plan a vacation someplace just you guys your mom and kids, no dads, husbands, or whatever.
good luck

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Why not have a family get together? So your mother can get to know her other grandchildren and your sisters daughters can play around with your child. That way you're all introduced, and you can get to know eachother better.

Your sister obviously has forgotten that your mother loves you both equally. It doesn't change for your children either. So ask your mom to talk to her about the situation, and how she'd like to get to know her other grandchildren. It's not your mom's fault for things being a little awkward with your sister's children and not yours because after all she did just find outt them and she's grown attached to yours. That's the choose she made when she decided to move away, communication and relationship loss.

It's NOT to late to still get close! So have little get togethers every once in a while. Also remember that sometimes you need to let your mom have time with just your sisters children, that way she's not feeling like your child has to always be around... which brings up jealousy.

i think you should move out and that her feel you are stiil love her

i know what you mean , your mother doesnt love yours anymore then hers ,but when your with them everyday you bond drifferent,but in time and if she stays around then your mother will get closer to hers, you need to sit your sister down and explain to her what youve have told us, let her know it takes time but it will happen. goodluck.

your mom needs to know your sisters child more

you, your mom, and your sister need to sit down and have a family meeting and talk this through...