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hi,
first i want to tell you that i'm a big sister to a youngest wonderful girl , with about 13 years difference .
so, please don't get angry with me and try to accept my advice to you.
i sometimes do as what your sister do , not exact the same but let's see
i may kick her out of our common room if she turned the light on while i'm sleeping , also i may yell at her when she ignore my demands or refuse to do something i hv asked her to do.
even i yell at her and i may hit her when she uses my things , makiing our room in mess , etc....
i know you are feeling angry at me right now and asking why i'm telling you that about me and my little sister!!!
its not a confession of course
its only to admit and tell you that it happens everywhere in the world
the elder person always wants to feel that he is older, can order , can punish , you know have a word on his or her little siblings may be to feel like his parents or older persons >
do you what do my young sister do when i hurt her anyway?
she cries honestly sometimes but my parents soometimes believe me the thing made her get nuts!!
so , she decided to punish me by the another way
she stopped talking to me , dealing with me completely
you know what!!
i thought that i can handle not talking to her for so long, but after a day passed i couldn't!!
really, i couldn't , i kept trying to talk to her , make it up with her but in vain.
the problem that she was avoiding me but with doing things that i used to ask her to do as not to turn on the light while i'm asleep!!
helping me in preparing lunch, dinner
!!!
she was perfect as i wanted her but she is not talking to me
what is the benefit!!
you may try to talk to her alot about herself, work or study, how she looks today, not to try to tell her what you want toughly, directly.
use your smartness to attract her to you, to talk to you and ask your advice try it , you won't lose , promise.
beleive me dear,
these simple quarrels make your life worthy
makes your sister dear to you as much as it makes you dear to her, it makes you remember her good and bad deeds when you get away from each other.
beleive me , she wouldn't refuse your attempts to talk to her so long too, she is your sister afterall.
hope everything goes well between both of you.