三年前，我在一個大學同學聚會結識了一個好朋友的小學同學（現任女朋友），當時她剛失戀，故我的同學帶她出來散心。聚會後，我們唱通宵k，之後各自回家。回家途中，我朋友用她的手機致電給我，叫我識做（追求她）。
因為我對她很有好感，打算展開追求。於是我在聚會後一個星期內每天與她通電話，約她出來看電影，表示我對她有意思，並將此事告知我的好朋友。看電影當天，她叫了我的好朋友出來，最後三人一起看，看完後她借約了朋友而離開。
我好朋友告知我她知我對她有意，然而她並不喜歡我。我非常失望，心想我自己條件並不夠好，家貧、外表普通、性格內向，她拒絕是應該的，於是當天晚上我致電給她致歉，令她受驚了。鑑於大學快將畢業，前途未明，經過深思熟慮後，決心考取會計師，希望事業有一番作為。
此後，我們並沒有聯絡。直至一年後，她主動約我出來吃飯，大家彼此傾談近況。到上年十二月，她主動約我去看電影，我初時以為普通約會，後來從朋友得知她想成為我女朋友。看電影當晚我們吃飯，飯後我提議去山頂或海灘希望再次表白，但她都一一拒絕，之後她朋友打電話約她去玩，我唯有送她到車站自行回家。
她，是在玩弄我的感情嗎？
2007-09-26 10:43 am
回答 (5)
2007-09-26 10:23 pm
✔ 最佳答案
至少你係佢可以考慮之列內...經過咁耐時間, 佢仲搵番你, 都叫有希望啦..好難講佢係唔係真心, 你地平時會唔會交心? 佢會唔會講佢嘅事比你聽? 不過都算咁啦, 佢都有心, 送皮帶比你...
不過我自覺呢個女仔好深不可測, 唔知佢點諗, 我係女仔都唔明, 或者你都算係一個不錯的選擇, 又一直鍾意佢...
咁又未必假意嘅, 佢都有做一d野令你地關係改進....不過你要同佢好好傾下囉, 唔出街, 唔拖手, 又真係唔似拍拖....女仔都係被動d, 京持d.....時間啦, 同佢一齊時間耐左就知啦
2007-10-05 9:30 am
其實你覺佢深不可測，都應該明白作出防範。
之後最選失去係時間、亞男仔
之後最選失去係時間、亞男仔
2007-09-26 4:58 pm
1她是真心想和我一起，還是另有目的？
我覺得佢又未至於話另有目的既....如果係~我霖你一定會FEEL到既....
你話情人節主動約會她，她說要考慮一下。可是到情人節前至當天，她都沒有回覆，音訊全無。我自知無望，便繼續努力工作。 ........情人節當天你一個電話都冇打比佢??可能佢
想你再打電話比佢呢??!女仔係錦架啦~口話考慮先啦~其實係ENJOY比人追果種感覺~我覺得你多心左D~
2我應該怎樣做才知道她是真心還是假意呢？
睇下之後落尼點啦~又或者當面同佢講清楚....如果佢係鍾意你既...就算當面講清楚佢都唔會嬲架~
我覺得佢又未至於話另有目的既....如果係~我霖你一定會FEEL到既....
你話情人節主動約會她，她說要考慮一下。可是到情人節前至當天，她都沒有回覆，音訊全無。我自知無望，便繼續努力工作。 ........情人節當天你一個電話都冇打比佢??可能佢
想你再打電話比佢呢??!女仔係錦架啦~口話考慮先啦~其實係ENJOY比人追果種感覺~我覺得你多心左D~
2我應該怎樣做才知道她是真心還是假意呢？
睇下之後落尼點啦~又或者當面同佢講清楚....如果佢係鍾意你既...就算當面講清楚佢都唔會嬲架~
2007-09-26 12:00 pm
1.以我自己角度,佢唔係真心同你一齊囉,
如果佢係有心~唔會拖咁耐,
就唔會一次再一次都係咁啦,頌要橋起雙手,佢做得好明顯
and我覺得佢係當你水泡 明知你鍾意佢,就有風哂盡利
佢可能當你係傻仔,鍾意就搵下你,唔鍾意就理得你死個d
所以我勸你快d放手啦!,,既然都冇結局.我唔想你泥足深"含"
2.其實好難試到佢係真心
黎D野好抽象，係真心定假意只有佢自己一個知
除非佢同朋友講過啦。如果唔係冇人知佢諗咩
或者下次佢叫你出黎，ＯＲ搵你，唔好理佢！睇佢反應
如果佢係有心~唔會拖咁耐,
就唔會一次再一次都係咁啦,頌要橋起雙手,佢做得好明顯
and我覺得佢係當你水泡 明知你鍾意佢,就有風哂盡利
佢可能當你係傻仔,鍾意就搵下你,唔鍾意就理得你死個d
所以我勸你快d放手啦!,,既然都冇結局.我唔想你泥足深"含"
2.其實好難試到佢係真心
黎D野好抽象，係真心定假意只有佢自己一個知
除非佢同朋友講過啦。如果唔係冇人知佢諗咩
或者下次佢叫你出黎，ＯＲ搵你，唔好理佢！睇佢反應
參考: ｍｅ＾＾
2007-09-26 11:58 am
I dont think your guys have the spark, cos as my experience when you met someone you really like or want start a relationship you will want to spend more time with each other to know each other better, atleast at the first of the relationship will have the feeling always want to meet and talk on phone.
maybe she feel you are a nice guy ,she might want to keep you to try but if she also really like you ,I dont understand why not meet you 2 weeks when just started a relationship.
Love cant tell from other people, you have to feel it by your heart.
maybe she feel you are a nice guy ,she might want to keep you to try but if she also really like you ,I dont understand why not meet you 2 weeks when just started a relationship.
Love cant tell from other people, you have to feel it by your heart.
參考: my self, i am in a long distance relationship but get marry soon
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