Women/girls are IN-BUILT with the longing to be affirmed that they ARE beautiful, they ARE worthy, they ARE understood, they ARE cared for.
This, to us, means we ARE loved.
Somehow, we seem to be focusing on the wrong thing. We actually need to find something ELSE we are deeply passionate about, something GREATER than us, to attract the people who WILL truly do that for us women/girls for who WE ARE, not as who we project ourselves to be.