我和一個已婚有家庭的男人一起, 大家很愛對方., 現在遇到困難.

我很同情你妳,但我真是不能理解,
妳為何如此不愛惜自己.
其實很多大道理,樓上的朋友都說過,
我想.....也不必要再要說一些相同的說話.
我覺得兩人在一起,一定要互相信任才能建
立良好而長遠的關係.
而是否值得信任,就得要從一個人的行為判斷,
愛一個人,是一心一意,不會隨時間而變質,
就算一個人的外貌﹑心態如何改變,
妳都會包容他缺點,欣賞他的優點.
妳會希望做一些對他好的事﹑
妳更不會希望他會受任何傷害.
但從他的行為,我看不到他是真心愛妳,
返而覺得他最愛的人是他自己.
就是因為他的自私行為,
傷害了兩個愛他的女人及一個幸福的家庭.
如果一個男人不能對自己的婚姻及家庭負責任,
又如何可以輕言對妳許下任何誠諾呢?
坦白說:看完他所說的一句:
~他跟我說真的很後悔以前那麼早結婚. 要不然今天就不會出現這麼多問題~
請見諒,真是有點看不起他.
我想他不懂愛人,而且更沒有資格說愛人.
大家都是女人,真心希望妳懂得選擇.
懂得的好好愛自己.
其實大家在批評他人包二奶如何不對時,
自己有沒有返醒自己的行為.
如果自己懂得潔身自愛,就不會做出傷害自己及他人的事情
**緊記不要以為,只要妳不破壞他的家庭,願意委屈做他的情婦,
就不會對他的家庭做成影響,今天妳還會這樣天真,一年後﹑3年後,
妳可以有多少青春呢?不難想像他朝,妳想要的不只有這些.**

其實我都係過來人~~
大約年半前,我同你一樣,都覺得自已搵到一個愛自已的男人,而我又搵到一個我愛的男人。
但係當佢話比我知,佢有家室的時候,我的心好似比好多把刀插入我個心裡面。佢仲同我講,你去搵一個愛你的男人。
佢同我講的所有野,我都依家都仲記得,雖然我都依家都仲未忘記到佢,但係這種的男人係唔會比到任何的幸福比你的,依家你已經知道佢有家室的話,你要快D離開佢。如果唔係的話,你將來一定會後悔的

Wake up! What I think is the guy is just trying to make you stay that's it. You see, if he really loves you, he could have divorced long ago or coudl have chosen not to intrude into your life at all. He's a very selfish guy. He wants to keep his family and have you at the same time. However, if that's the way he could treat his wife, what'll he do to you after you have grown older or when he is sick of you?

In a relationship, it is always alright to ask for more from you partner. However, this will never be the case if you persist on with this relationship. He has his own family and deep inside, he knows that in the worst case he still have someone to fall back on if things doesn't work well with you. Have you ever think about yourself??

Besides, the society will do not respect the Third party at all. Have you ever think of what will people aroudn you see you when they know what is going on between both of you? Also, how will your parents think about it? What if he loves you so much and really divorced his wife, which is very unlikely, are you willing to be the kids' step mum?

Anyway, it is not worth it to waste your time on that guy. He is just being selfish and greedy. Leave him as soon as possible for good. When you look back in future, you will know how silly it is to be stuck with him.

在不知情下你做了第三者, 這不是你的錯, 錯的是你男友。
但現在真相已經知道了, 雖然你是愛他, 他說他也是愛你, 但無奈你也第三者身份!!
破壞別人家庭的不會有好下場..... 你試想想, 你是他第三者, 難保有一天, 另一個她也是你們的第三者.....
今天她說後悔, 他日也會和別人說後悔的~
何況他的是一個完整家庭, 有兒有女有老婆, 你們也懂說他是幸福的家庭呢!!
既然已經知道了, 何必再這樣下去呢, 你最好忍痛分手吧, 長痛不如短痛!!!
你一定會找到一個比他更愛你的人, 因為你和他分開, 証明你已成長。

我勸你唔好浪費青春起依個男人身上啦，如果你繼續同佢一齊，你會害左佢成頭家，你良心過意得去嗎?? 況且睇黎你男友無乜意思同佢妻子離婚，你甘心沒有名份都和他一起嗎??

佢當初不是好愛他的妻子才和她結婚嗎?? 如果他因為愛你而後悔結左婚，將來就算比你同到佢結婚，佢都會同第二個女人講他後悔咁衝動和你結婚，對婚姻咁唔尊重的男人你信得過他嗎?? 如此不能承擔後果同對自己妻子不負責任的男人你嫁得過嗎?? 輝慧劍斬情絲把啦........

做人第三者會比人話架，你能負上狐狸精的罪名嗎??