為何有些人喜歡[認叻]?

人為什麼喜歡認叻?
人要認叻，因為本身冇安全感，其實某程度，好多認叻的人都係自卑的，對自己唔夠信心，惟有係把口度贏人。你留意下，真材實料的人會好謙卑，還有就係生活是否美滿都會有影響，總之認叻的人就係係心靈上找些慰藉去肯定自己。

咁有些人真係真材實料的都會認叻既，世事無絶對。


喜歡怨聲載道?車大砲?吹水?怨天尤人?
講大話有時可以變成習慣，最初可能亨受人家的驚訝，講講下，大砲越車越大，其也人都發覺，只剩下講果個樂在其中，完全唔知自己誠信已經破產。

怨天尤人就係自己唔滿足現狀，貪心永遠令人最痛苦，如果一個人唔滿足自己擁有的，就算你有幾多錢，幾幸福的家庭，都唔會開心，總係計較自己未擁有的。
怨天怨地有時都係一種習慣，記住 : 性格做就命運，開朗的人總會有好事來臨。

Why?看不出自己缺點?
最簡單黎講，因為人要用樈先睇到自己，人的眼只係睇到人地。

大部份人的通病就係推卸責任，有問題一定係人地錯，學生讀書唔成，老師的問題，自己份工做唔好，老闆同事的問題，揾唔到份好工，社會問題。宜家好多人都係咁諗，永遠唔係自己的問題，通常會自我檢討的人都會成功，唔係只識講癈話。記住 : 做好過講。

其實諗下照鏡的反應，如果你係塊鏡見到自己頭髮亂，你一定會用梳梳自己個頭，唔係梳樈裏面的倒影，所以發生係我地身上面的所有事，都係一個倒影，要檢討的係自己。

oh this is quite interesting, i think thats because she JUST LOVE TO show off and super super self centered, and super super low self esteem

people have low self esteem talk low about other people, so as to raise their status among others, this is really stupid bscos clever people will prove they are better than others through hard work, not talking

people love to blame and full of excuses just want to expres themselves, of cos this is not good, as we all know blaming is not going to help any situation la, people used to blaming and making up excuses will not improve and will not work good in their career. they are not contributing to the office as their opinions are just rubbish. and the reason behind is only because they wish to tell people what they think and they want to seek attention from peers.

reference from self experience - i was one of those stupid people before haha