She has moved 4 times since the divorce. It's kinda hard to pay her when I don't know what her address is. I also have a weird visitation. She doesn't want me to be able to see them until they are 13. They are 5 and 4 now. And when they are 13, I have to go to her state and stay in a hotel for 2 weeks to visit them. I can't take them back home with me. My attorney said that I may be able to get them decreased b/c of hardship visitation rules. I also am a type 1 diabetic and my medicines are way too expensive and I am not old enough for medicare or medicaid. Also, I had the doctor's note saying that i couldn't work but part time when the divorce was in court.
I'm 2 years away from having my master's degree. She doesn't have a bank account and I have searched everywhere for her address and phone number and it is unlisted. How is it far that I'm supposed to pay 500 bucks a month when I can't even know where my kids are living? Or at least talk to them? My attorney can't even find her.