教我應如何做好?

2007-08-05 11:59 pm
記得之前阿媽同過我地三個仔女講,如果你地話“阿媽咁辛苦,不如你唔好做,咁就好”

或者仔女養返阿媽係天公地道的事,但是我人工咁低(得個六千蚊),我自己每個月俾千蚊,
自己又要儲下錢旁身,自己有時買下野俾佢地食

阿二哥又唔生性, 又唔俾錢阿媽

阿大哥又.....

如果真係有錢養阿媽, 咁阿爸呢?阿爸知左咪呷醋

有時候,總係同佢唔係咁岩傾,佢時時刻刻都同我講,我之前細過成副身家俾阿媽,咁講, 我都無野好講

其實我一直都唔明白阿媽係度諗緊乜野,又話無人幫佢做過野,做過家務,我日日食完飯都有幫佢洗碗,掉垃圾架
唔知係咪有d人, 因為好人, 所以佢就得寸進尺....有時我覺得好辛苦

有次阿媽唔舒服所以入廠,我地都有探佢,佢頭先仲話,如果佢病左係醫院,都唔會有人探佢,
有時都覺得做到好心淡,明明係有做,佢就話無做,或者佢梗本就唔知足

有次阿媽因為要check 野, 所以要入醫院,阿哥打黎, 話探佢.....之後同阿媽講, 阿媽講左好難聽既說話(唔記得啦,總之聽到都覺得好唔領情)

教我應如何做好?

回答 (2)

2007-08-06 4:39 am
✔ 最佳答案
其實好多父母,有口冇心,可能佢地讀得書少,唔識得:同人溝通係要有技巧的,今時今日任何關係都要互相尊重。成日得把聲呱呱叫,算啦!有今生冇來世!有時d父母都想炸下仔女嬌!想你地tum下,讚下:佢為你地煮飯洗衫等等鎖碎野,認同佢地存在價值,但係唔識得表達姐。年紀越大越似細路仔。家用呢?就量入而出啦!
2007-08-06 5:12 am
This is already a very mordern world now and I think that all the parents shouldn't demand anything from their kids. If this is the point why they have had kids then they shouldn't even have kids at the first place.
You are already very considering of your family situation and have paid your own due already, so you don't have to have bad feelings about the amount of money you give it to her monthly.
One day when you get to live in a better living standard, I am sure that you will be able and willing to support your mother in a more comfortable way.
Don't think too much, and don't let little things to bother you. Just concentrat on work and make more afford to hit a better future for you and your family.

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