現代男女拍拖出街洗費, 都是男方負擔嗎 ?

2007-07-31 6:58 am
現代男女拍拖出街洗費, 都是男方負擔嗎 ?
我今年已年過30了, 最近和一女朋友希望有機會發展,
現在都只是起步階段, 仍未算是拍拖階段, 但她給我的感覺
是希望我負擔所有洗費, 如看電影啦, 食晚飯等, 如果一個月都是這樣,
對我都有點壓力, 現有點想不通 !! 多謝朋友給些意見 !

回答 (6)

2007-07-31 7:10 am
✔ 最佳答案
其實好睇個女仔點睇! 會有d女仔覺得大家只係朋友既關係, 會唔好意思用哂朋友d錢. 其實朋友同朋友之間aa制係好平常. 就算係拍緊拖反而可以同佢傾下, 咁樣我先覺得大家唔會因為錢而造成一d不必要既金錢問題而影響大家感情, 若果你唔好意思開口, 其實你可以試下, 例如去睇戲, 咁你叫佢買票, 咁到大家講夾錢既問題或者係畀錢既問題既時候, 你不防試下: 睇戲你既. 咁食飯我既...咁若果佢都係對你好既. 其實會唔介意架! 錢呢d野的確係好現實, 不過而家初段你都覺得有問題, 日子耐左真係會成為兩個人既感情阻礙架!
祝你成功!
2007-08-01 2:35 am
梗係唔係啦?如果大家都有工作,就應該大家負擔,就算將來有幸結婚,都應該係咁。依你嘅情況嚟講,你負擔唔嚟就要開心見誠講出嚟,唔好死撑,無謂將來錢又洗盡,人地又唔滿足,又或者你會口出怨言都唔好呀!
2007-07-31 7:47 pm
拍拖男方都負擔唔起,咁結婚點算呀?

我係男黎,雖然無規定要男仔比錢

但係都算係考驗,唔通你想結婚後公一份婆一份
2007-07-31 7:53 am
come on, to be honest, for me, i wanna my bf pays all the bill. but even he is ok, i wont, cos i can earn the money mean i have the responsibility to pay some. when go out, for example $50-150 la, normally he will pay, but i also find reason to pay time to time. cos it is fair. during weekend, i will go to his place and normally i pay all cos, i need to buy this and that for lunch and dinner, so what, if i love him, it is not a count. snack and some household stuff, i will pay as well.

when go out, bf sees me to pay the bill, he will ask why. sometimes, when he pays for my friend, i will let him do it but behind, i will return the money to him. cos, he pays for me, not for my friend. telling u, i m much poorer than bf, bf has quite good life. haha..unless u are Tsui Chi Kay, otherwise, girls and boys, be fair to each other. as u know, i told bf, pls save more for future.

however, boys, when bday, or special anniversary, dont keep the money buy prepare a big gift for the girls u love la. remember ar.
2007-07-31 7:52 am
我係個女仔
可能我可以解答你既擬問

我啲朋友拍拖多數都係男仔俾錢架
例如出街個時::*:
睇戲,,食飯,,零食,,飲品...
例如買嘢個時::*:
衣服,,鞋,,袋,,錢包,,電話繩,,介指,,脛鏈,,手電,,NDS...
又例如其他::*:
電話費,,整頭髮,,唱K,,買碟,,去海洋公園...
全部都係男方俾
女方一蚊都吾駛出GA
AND THEN男方吾俾女方去打工添

宜家既拍拖就好似結婚咁
女生要既野
男方一定要俾到
就好似俾家用咁

其實都吾知點解會咁
但係女方就好似好享受咁

不過我覺得對你有壓力既話
你要同佢講LO
我念女方都會睇諒既
參考: 本人
2007-07-31 7:08 am
通常是的,但如果女方睇諒你,都會幫你出吓或者食平啲~~
個啲女仔就要得過LA,好似我咁,HA HA

你可以同佢傾吓,我想慳啲等第日結婚用,佢就會同你一齊慳
否則個女仔鐘意飲飲食食多過鐘意你,真正鐘意你,不會
mind 你貧窮

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