I'm a gal who loves the hair... beards, goatees, moustaches, w/e! I love the trimmed look, or long and full... but don't try it if you have patches or cannot grow a full beard ... that's just ugly!
My first husband had some problem with patches and even when he tried to grow a beard for me, it was sad... so he just stayed with the moustache! My second husband can grow a beard but won't do it cause he doesn't like the itchiness on his face! Oh well... maybe the third times a charm huh! ;0)