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2007-07-03 9:19 pm
我同我個男朋友一齊左2個幾星期~~識左佢半年少d~~
做 fd 果陣,覺得佢好好人,又送我去坐車,咩都會幫我手~ 果陣對佢都有 d 好感~~
之後,佢為左我飛左佢前ex~
第一次同佢出街就拖左手,第二次佢仲想攬我,不過我 say no~佢都無再攬la~~
但係同佢一齊左之後,唔知點解我對佢果種好感好似無晒,但係我同佢一齊好開心,即使悶同累,都無所謂~~
前幾日,去左沙灘玩with fd,佢仲想錫我,但我避佢,2次都仲係咁~攪到我唔知點~ 雖然佢話慢慢黎~
其實我知佢好愛我,但係再係咁,我諗好快就好佢玩完~~
因為今次係我既初戀黎 ga~~有無人有 d 咩 idea 幫下我呀~~
我而家連自己諗咩我都唔知,煩左我好多日 la~~晚晚都訓唔到,我又驚傷害到佢~~
更新1:

我17~~就黎18 la~~ 佢就20

回答 (7)

2007-07-03 9:53 pm
✔ 最佳答案
我都試過類似咁情況..未同個男仔拍拖之前,
成日都想約埋一齊出泥玩,見面,傾計.
到真係一齊左,我極度唔願意同佢拖手呀,擁抱,
鍚就更加唔得tim!連佢講甜言蜜語我都覺得"毛管凍",
我就發現自己原來唔係鐘意佢.
係只限於朋友果種..我就同佢講都係做返朋友,

聽你咁講你對佢都好似唔係愛情果種感覺喎,
你對佢好似只係好朋友咁..如果你真係鐘意一個人,
我覺得你係唔會拒絕同佢有比較親密少少o既行為架.
你真係要認真唸下佢係咪你需要o既野?
佢係咪真係你杯茶呀?定係你仲未"釋應"到由朋友變左做情人的關係呢?

如果你真係只能夠同佢做朋友.你決絕d.坦白d同佢講清楚啦.
你覺得咁樣可能會傷到佢,但事情係咁,好難話唔傷的,
愈拖得耐,傷得愈深呢!
但係咁樣對大家泥講都係一件好事,起碼唔會浪費
佢找一個真的愛他的人的時間..自己又不用勉強自己不想做的事.

我唔知你明唔明我講咩,我亦唔係想話叫人分手咁毒,
只係有時處理有d事情要理性一點的好!
我講o既只係個人小小意見,最終都係要你自己去衡量
決定點做.
參考: 自己的小小意見
2007-07-03 10:36 pm
I think he is too aggressive. You have to be careful. If he really loves you, he will respect your feeling. You are too young to have sex relationship and you should be careful to deal with him especially you are not sure about your feeling.
Most of the puppy love will not have happy ending. So don't feel bad that it doesn't work out eventually. But most important is, protect yourself.
I think you should be firm and say no when you don't want him to kiss you. Even thought he may leave you. If so, it only proves that he loves your body more than you. Then he should leave.
Good luck.
2007-07-03 9:55 pm
雖然我唔知你同你個男朋友實際年齡,但新相識初期確實不應有太多身體接觸,如果個男仔係真心想同妳發展下去,一定會尊重你保護自己的決定,唔使驚傷害到佢。而且你只係初戀,不要因一時做錯決定,失去最寶貴的東西比一個識左兩個幾星期嘅男仔,你到時不要後悔啊。
2007-07-03 9:53 pm
How old are you?如果你太細個(18歲以下)就唔好拍拖住啦,你都唔知真愛係咩,小心佢攞左你個貞操呀,佢咁狼,要好好保護自己呀!!!

2007-07-03 13:55:15 補充:
其實你錫唔落佢都證明你唔係太中意佢了

2007-07-05 16:28:18 補充:
我都試過有個錫唔落嘅男友......佢又係好狼...之後為左要保護自己...散左了,,n年前
2007-07-03 9:36 pm
you should what is love . If he love you ,he will not only want to kiss .you can try her.you are young ,you can find the more love. don't think her is everythings..
參考: me
2007-07-03 9:35 pm
其實我覺得男女之間最重要係溝通
你要同佢講.. 你拒絕佢唔係因為唔鍾意佢..
只係未ready好.. 叫佢體諒你..!

之後再慢慢自然就ok ga la... 兩個幾星期ja...
唔洗甘急ge^^ 相處得舒服最重要...

我相信佢都一定會明白同體諒你ge..
如果唔係ge話, 你要佢都無用啦..
因為佢淨係要你個body, 唔理你個heart
仲只顧自己, 唔理你感受..
絕對唔係一個好男友..!

所以你都係坦白同佢講你感受啦...
亦都係一個測試佢係未真心ge好方法!! Be Brave!!!
參考: 自己
2007-07-03 9:32 pm
你可以同你個男朋友一齊做 fd

2007-07-03 13:34:25 補充:
可以向你最信任的家人 , 朋友告訴

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