我同男友散左,原因係想一心去成長,但仲好愛對方的
我地答應對方4年之約,到左第4年拍返拖(宜家16碎)
我地係基督徒,我有件事未同佢坦白
我唔係處女,係我13碎的時候俾人咩左
我唔係自願的.而且果個人係識的
我應否同佢坦白,坦白左會點
佢好愛我,我呃佢好定點
佢係處男
4年之約,你可以接受埋我的過去嗎,
2007-06-18 9:58 pm
回答 (10)
2007-06-18 11:25 pm
✔ 最佳答案
我覺得你唔洗講囉.講真, 唔講佢都唔會知你係唔係處女.
處女膜呀, 流血果d, 個個人唔同, 唔係處女都有幾會流血, 係處女都有機會唔流, 要似乎個人個處女膜既厚度.
如果你係比人咩左一次之後都冇性行為的話, 隔左咁多年, 你再大個d, 再有性行為既話, 都有機會流血.
而且第一次又唔係你自願既. 快d忘記左件事佢, 帶眼識人, 比自己有個警剔就得喇.
講左冇幫助之餘, 傷害到對方, 令大家感情破裂, 男仔唔會介意女仔係處女定唔係, 不過話比佢知你既第一次係咁樣冇左, 佢一定會耿耿於懷.
你會更傷之餘, 大家有陰影添啦, 講左唻又何必呢, 係唔係??
唔講唔代表你錯, 唔係所有事都要打開個肚比晒人睇既, 大話, 唔坦白都有分善惡意之分.
總之, 你帶眼識人, 鍾意佢就好好珍惜佢, 對佢好就夠架喇.
2007-06-20 5:07 am
如果佢好愛妳,就唔介意,如果唔係,講 咗可能有不良後果,諗清楚!
2007-06-19 7:34 am
我覺得你應該同佢講,~呢d野男好mind的;)講左出黎佢起碼會原諒你<3
處男會介意自己條女係咪處囉!
處男會介意自己條女係咪處囉!
2007-06-19 12:08 am
如果你同佢講左,
佢仲肯等你四年,
咁就恭喜你啦,
因為証明呢個男仔好愛你;
但如果佢知道後同你分手,
這樣就証明佢只係介意你係唔係處女。
佢仲肯等你四年,
咁就恭喜你啦,
因為証明呢個男仔好愛你;
但如果佢知道後同你分手,
這樣就証明佢只係介意你係唔係處女。
2007-06-19 12:01 am
其實而家年代係唔係處都唔係咩大件事,
即使佢因為咁唔同你再係埋一齊,
佢又可以sure 自己一定搵到訖既而又真心愛大家既咩??
我覺得你應該同佢講左先,
唔好比佢誤會你等佢果四年至比人攪左..
因為before同after 差好遠!
咁當然唔係無lala講啦,
你同佢傾細個開心唔開心既野,
lee樣咪係唔開心既野囉!
byebye
即使佢因為咁唔同你再係埋一齊,
佢又可以sure 自己一定搵到訖既而又真心愛大家既咩??
我覺得你應該同佢講左先,
唔好比佢誤會你等佢果四年至比人攪左..
因為before同after 差好遠!
咁當然唔係無lala講啦,
你同佢傾細個開心唔開心既野,
lee樣咪係唔開心既野囉!
byebye
2007-06-18 11:15 pm
有時有D野唔係一定要同佢講,,
但係你自己應該識唸 咩野講得咩野唔講得
你認為講左 佢唔介意咪講囉
講左佢好介意既話 應該唔好講喇
不過如果佢真係愛你 我唸都介意5黎
因為你唔想 係人迫你架麻,,
如果可以 我唸你再大個少少 再同佢講都5遲吧~
但係你自己應該識唸 咩野講得咩野唔講得
你認為講左 佢唔介意咪講囉
講左佢好介意既話 應該唔好講喇
不過如果佢真係愛你 我唸都介意5黎
因為你唔想 係人迫你架麻,,
如果可以 我唸你再大個少少 再同佢講都5遲吧~
2007-06-18 11:04 pm
當然要講!!
其實你問得，都知你其實想講，不過又唔知點講出口…
其實一對情侶做到四年之約唔容易，這證明你們唔係玩玩下，亦證明你思想成熟
咁既然咁認真，又咁愛對方，坦白係一定
愛情，建基於好多方面，誠信是其中重要的因素
試想想，如你的男朋友唔係處男，佢又唔比你知，咁你後來發現左，咁你會點
多 D 企係對方哥邊 lum，大家沒有秘密，生活都快樂 D
鼓起勇氣講出泥，你男朋友唔會介意架！
祝好運…
其實你問得，都知你其實想講，不過又唔知點講出口…
其實一對情侶做到四年之約唔容易，這證明你們唔係玩玩下，亦證明你思想成熟
咁既然咁認真，又咁愛對方，坦白係一定
愛情，建基於好多方面，誠信是其中重要的因素
試想想，如你的男朋友唔係處男，佢又唔比你知，咁你後來發現左，咁你會點
多 D 企係對方哥邊 lum，大家沒有秘密，生活都快樂 D
鼓起勇氣講出泥，你男朋友唔會介意架！
祝好運…
2007-06-18 10:44 pm
You rather lie to him for the rest of your life? You will feel guilty all the time. It is also not fair to him. If he loves you, he won't leave you. He will love you even more.
I was raped by a person I know too. I choose to tell him. I am also a Christian. We are now living with each other and we are very happy with each other.
Is really a personal choice. No right or wrong. But for your own good, tell him and be honest will be the key. So later on no one able to accuse of lying to him.
God bless
I was raped by a person I know too. I choose to tell him. I am also a Christian. We are now living with each other and we are very happy with each other.
Is really a personal choice. No right or wrong. But for your own good, tell him and be honest will be the key. So later on no one able to accuse of lying to him.
God bless
2007-06-18 10:08 pm
坦白會更好
依家比佢知道,
好過第日先比佢知
第日比佢知佢會更心痛
佢會唔明白點解你咁都要呃佢,唔同佢講
可能同佢講左佢會體諒你呢
佢真係真心愛你
你都唔會介意呢一切一切
唔會話你係處女我就一定要係處男嫁麻
佢好愛你,自自然然就唔想同你散
會好珍惜呢段感情
而且佢愛你都唔會介意呢d野
依家比佢知道,
好過第日先比佢知
第日比佢知佢會更心痛
佢會唔明白點解你咁都要呃佢,唔同佢講
可能同佢講左佢會體諒你呢
佢真係真心愛你
你都唔會介意呢一切一切
唔會話你係處女我就一定要係處男嫁麻
佢好愛你,自自然然就唔想同你散
會好珍惜呢段感情
而且佢愛你都唔會介意呢d野
2007-06-18 10:02 pm
其他坦白應該更好囉....
因為你話佢好愛你丫MA..
如果你呃佢你良心都唔好過啦.....
因為你話佢好愛你丫MA..
如果你呃佢你良心都唔好過啦.....
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