兒子上堂聊天
2007-06-16 12:54 am
兒子在男校讀小四,外向,多言,好奇,心散,上堂時很喜歡跟同學講話,最近日漸嚴重,我在家裏已常常告誡他,但看來成效不大,一向不主張體罰,但最近也忍不住打了他兩次,每次體罰後一,兩天發覺他有所收歛,但不久又若無其事般故態復萌,老師已跟我說明年五年級要計分升中了,不能再這樣下去,成績又不是很出眾,請問有沒有方法可以幫助我,不勝感激,謝謝!
回答 (9)
2007-06-16 1:03 am
✔ 最佳答案
小四男生, 也不少了.用利誘!
鼓勵他上課時留心聽講, 如成績有進步, 就奬賞他 (如看電視半小時, 打電腦半小時, 上網半小時等)
如果你之前是放任的教法 (即係無王管, 任玩任上網), 咁就可說覆水難收. 要慢慢加番個金剛圈, 睇怕升中前難有改變.
2007-06-16 3:59 am
其實我自己有個補習學生佢小學五年級，佢心散~多言~好奇....
成日都俾老師話佢唔專心~坐唔定~
佢媽媽終於都頂唔住帶佢見學校社工~
社工叫佢帶個仔去做評估~
發現咗個小朋友有精神唔聚中的問題，要經過治療~宜家好好多~
雖然la個例子可能嚴重少少~但係想話係你知最worst的"精神唔聚中"都係一個病
成日都俾老師話佢唔專心~坐唔定~
佢媽媽終於都頂唔住帶佢見學校社工~
社工叫佢帶個仔去做評估~
發現咗個小朋友有精神唔聚中的問題，要經過治療~宜家好好多~
雖然la個例子可能嚴重少少~但係想話係你知最worst的"精神唔聚中"都係一個病
2007-06-16 2:20 am
I just graduated from a primary school last year, these are my opinion:
1.Before you decide to hit him, think about that do you hit him because you want to release your anger or you want to make him behaving well. If you hit him too often, he may hurt anyone he saw, especially people who hit him.
2.Children should be active, this is normal.
3.If he is your only offspring, I think that he may be bored staying at home, so he wanted to play or chatter with his friends whenever he see them.
1.Before you decide to hit him, think about that do you hit him because you want to release your anger or you want to make him behaving well. If you hit him too often, he may hurt anyone he saw, especially people who hit him.
2.Children should be active, this is normal.
3.If he is your only offspring, I think that he may be bored staying at home, so he wanted to play or chatter with his friends whenever he see them.
2007-06-16 2:05 am
** 我覺得唔同人都有唔同既性格,有人會比較內向些或外向些,都唔代表他"百厭"既,而且細路好奇好正常姐,因為佢得9歲,10歲,仲係個小朋友,對樣樣野好奇,好想知根本一d都唔出奇喎,而且好奇心又可以令到佢多d 唸野tim啦,咁係好架喎,佢喜歡跟同學講話,代表佢同同學關係唔錯呢,咁樣又可以令佢學會點樣同人社交..
**還有一點...對子女有要求係應該,但係唔應該過份law,因樣唔只有反效果,仲只會不斷加重佢既壓力,令你個仔失去讀書既興趣,咁仲點會有進步呢,係咪先?你唔係佢當然感受唔到佢既辛苦,最緊要係體諒牙..長遠黎講,如果佢持續係咁樣受家庭壓力o既影響既話,,,
..>輕則..佢仲細既時候,你打佢罵佢,可能仲會聽吓你講,但佢長大後,有佢自己o既思想,自然唔會再聽你"點",之後就采你都傻,哈哈
..>重則你地關係惡劣o左之後,佢更會學壞,更更更嚴重既,佢可能最後忍唔住壓力"自殺"(日日都有唔少新聞啦)
"唸唸點樣為人母親啦"
"唔應該樣樣都向壞既方面唸"
"教育係好重要,而唔係打打打牙"唉~
**還有一點...對子女有要求係應該,但係唔應該過份law,因樣唔只有反效果,仲只會不斷加重佢既壓力,令你個仔失去讀書既興趣,咁仲點會有進步呢,係咪先?你唔係佢當然感受唔到佢既辛苦,最緊要係體諒牙..長遠黎講,如果佢持續係咁樣受家庭壓力o既影響既話,,,
..>輕則..佢仲細既時候,你打佢罵佢,可能仲會聽吓你講,但佢長大後,有佢自己o既思想,自然唔會再聽你"點",之後就采你都傻,哈哈
..>重則你地關係惡劣o左之後,佢更會學壞,更更更嚴重既,佢可能最後忍唔住壓力"自殺"(日日都有唔少新聞啦)
"唸唸點樣為人母親啦"
"唔應該樣樣都向壞既方面唸"
"教育係好重要,而唔係打打打牙"唉~
2007-06-16 1:14 am
你可以嘗試同佢講清楚上堂唔可以講話,但如果佢頌係咁,你可以同佢低聲下氣咁講:「仔,你明年五年級要考報分試啦,lee個試對你黎講好重要的,如果考唔好,你不但會升上唔倒心怡的中學,頌會大大影響你的前途的,所以,你依家要專心d讀書啦!」
當你講上述文字時,唔好直腸直肚!(緊記!),還有,雖然體罰完後對佢好似好有效咁,但呢種「有效」只可以維持一兩日,不但會傷感情,咁會有反效果!
當你講上述文字時,唔好直腸直肚!(緊記!),還有,雖然體罰完後對佢好似好有效咁,但呢種「有效」只可以維持一兩日,不但會傷感情,咁會有反效果!
參考: 自己意見
2007-06-16 1:08 am
我是一個女生，我現在六年級了，如果你想、你兒子好d‧你、不妨讓他魚下，例"例如明天中文評估﹔你不要跟他溫習，你叫他自己温，如果佢不合格，老師說給了同學聽，那同學用眼神看他是，他便會魚，後來便會自己去溫，不過呢Ｄ哩都係要自己開曉
2007-06-16 1:05 am
take to him the reasons & try give him reward if he change totally !!
2007-06-16 12:59 am
其实你可以找个时间同他倾下计..你告诉他计分生中噶野...一般以我觉度来看真系悟主张體罰的......如果体罚只会使他越来越反叛!!!
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