my BF's work in china

我男朋友以前一直喺大陸做嘢，直至同我拍咗拖，佢先開始一星期落嚟香港兩三次。佢都唔會轉工ga，同你男朋友一樣!!
好多人問我: "乜你唔驚佢上面有女人咩?"
我會答 : "無得驚。"
真係無得驚，兩個人一開始拍拖嗰陣，大家一早有晒心理準備，對方唔會成日喺對方身邊，但有樣嘢係好重要嘅，就係"信任"。你初初同佢做朋友，你都信佢係一個好人啦 ! 否則都唔會發展落去呀。
我男朋友都要應酬，卡拉ok，揼骨少不免，佢工作好認真，係個工作狂。有時我打俾佢，佢好忙都唔會理我ga，不過佢之後會打返俾我講我知佢做緊乜，點解唔聽電話。平時佢一得閒就會報到，因為佢怕我多嘢諗，唔想我胡思亂想。
講真，佢講乜你就要信ga啦! 如果佢要瞞住你去玩，你都情願佢一世呃住你啦!!
其實你唔駛咁唔開心呀!!有啲嘢唔駛睇得咁重要，佢同你一齊，你一定係有啲嘢係其他女人比唔上嘅，佢先會想同你一齊呀。之前
我男朋友都有同我講話有啲大陸女人鍾意佢，之前我都見過個女人，個女人都知道佢有女朋友，個女人都繼續怨住我男友。
我問男朋友點解要講我知?
佢話 : "我派定心丸俾你囉!"
其實個女人個樣唔差，我自問我個樣無佢咁靚，而且我無個女人咁溫柔，
但我覺得我男朋友選擇同我一齊，我一定係有啲人哋無我有嘅嘢，佢先會一直愛我到依家。
以前佢喺大陸，我無乜俾過壓力佢，可以話唔係好理佢。可能因為咁，佢覺得我好就得佢，好體諒佢，所以佢唔敢對我唔好囉!

總之一句，唔駛咁緊張啦! 佢要變你都改變唔到ga啦，玩都唔一定要去大陸玩，香港搵個都得啦! 俾啲信心自己啦!

Most prc girls love Hong Kong fellows just for money. If Hong Kong fellows play with those PRC girls just for sex which is better than falling into love with them.

PRC girls seldom fall in love with Hong Kong fellows without taking money into concern. If you BF is rich, it is more troublesome. if your BF play just for sex, you still have to blame becaue he is unloyal to you but better still than BF really wants to marry with PRC girl.

If latter, you better leave him and bless him for the goodness. But frankly speaking, unless your BF is rich and famous, PRC girls never be loyal to him for whole of life. That is the cultural difference between Hong Kong and PRC. I personally feel HK girls are much much better in thinking with Hong Kong men.

There is one big joke, an old man of 50 dating with a young lady say around 20, walking in streets at PRc, seems very normal.

But if they do so in Hong Kong, just like a father taking care of a daughter, everybody would look in strange ways. If they are real, that is good. But most such these couples even the men are young just money money in 1st place.

男人 o既 o野 ... 你開心同唔開心 ... 只要男人想做. 他都會做 ...

尤其是飲酒後更加難控制自己 ... 這不是危言聳聽 ...

這是一個困局, 他不想; 你也無奈 ... 你可以做的. 就是自保... 不要通他傳染到性病和愛滋病 ...

至於貞操的問題 ~ 你唯有相信他吧 ~ 這樣, 大家都會開心一點 ~ 或者, 他會是真的為了你而守身 ~ 這樣的男人是很難得的 ~

I think he respects you and he lets you know he goes to kareoke and massage.
Sometimes you can't think too much as most of the time you will think the negative side. Just relax yourself and tell him your feelings. Supporting for both of you is very important. Also, don't try to force him to change his job. He will change it once he feels not situable for him.