問男仔關於舊女友 (女仔都入來, 唔該!!)
我男友之前非常愛過一個女仔
但係已經成過去(因為個女仔另結新歡)
老實講我其實都幾妒忌
當然我冇表現出來
想問男仔你會想個新女友點樣面對你的過去?
同埋會對以下反應有咩感想?
1. 提都唔提個前女友
2. 閒話家常時當普通人提起來講
3. 每當講起時就成日開玩笑咁話好妒忌個女仔
4. 同佢比較 (例如, 我永遠都冇佢咁靚...or 你個陣又對佢點點, 而家又唔對我點點....)
究竟點樣係最好?
回答 (4)
✔ 最佳答案
其實我都好明白你既感受,
果時我都好妒忌男朋友個ex!
但..你男朋友愛你嗎?
若然愛既話,又駛乜妒忌?
你要同自己講,而家同佢一齊果個係你!
應該係佢個ex妒忌你先岩,而唔係你!
你同佢一齊有幾耐呀?
其實時間可以証明一切的..
比d時間佢,會令佢愛你多過ex!
我係你唔會咁快問佢依d野,
果時,我男朋友都唔係咁鐘意!
只要同佢時間一耐左,佢就會自己話你聽!
相信我..冇人會鐘意提起過去的!
記住,現在先係最重要!
1. 提都唔提個前女友( 如果我係個個男仔,我會覺得呢個女仔唔會介意我,真係好啦!)
2. 閒話家常時當普通人提起來講 (如果我係個個男仔,我會覺得你好煩之餘重好唔體諒人)
3. 每當講起時就成日開玩笑咁話好妒忌個女仔 (如果我係個個男仔,我會覺得你好似真 係妒忌,好似好唔相信我咁。
4. 同佢比較 (例如, 我永遠都冇佢咁靚...or 你個陣又對佢點點, 而家又唔對我點點....) (唔好計較,佢都做左你男友啦!重咁諗,而且人地又另結新歡,冇可能再同個男仔一齊)
希望可以幫到你啦!
Actually, I have similar experience like you.
At the very beginning, i really care about his history with his ex.
But indeed, i am not brave enough to ask him anything about his ex. Therefore, i just asked about it for several time and in a funny way...and i hope my bf won't feel that i am jealous. However, after a period of time, i started not think about it anymore... cos i think i am with him already and i realised that he loves me otherwise he wont choose me. It is difficult to compare between you and his ex. You know, what you can do is maintain ur nature which makes your bf loves u at the very beginning. Be yourself and you will be fine. And I believe you must hv something which his ex doesn't hv. Trust yourself.
參考: me. i am a girl.
冷手拾個熱煎堆,甘好既你都唔要,留比我享受啦。
提都唔好提,當無件事甘,以免聊起佢既傷心事。
收錄日期: 2021-04-13 00:44:20
原文連結 [永久失效]:
https://hk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070518000051KK03683
檢視 Wayback Machine 備份