我算唔算自私?

2007-05-18 6:30 am
我係女仔...
我唔係有好多個fd,而阿T係我最好既朋友(識佐6,7年,住得好近)~
有時我會諗,如果佢第日有佐bf,就會唔理我,所以我都好驚佢會有bf~
假如佢真係有bf,我又唔會憎果個人既,我覺得只要阿T同佢一齊,覺得開心就ok啦~

通常,都係我打電話約阿T去街,但係佢又唔會主動約我~
有時我會o係度諗,會唔會煩到佢...

我地都係中5學生,遲d要各散東西,我好驚我地既友誼會keep唔到~
同埋,我算唔算係自私?我可以點做?

回答 (8)

2007-05-18 7:06 am
✔ 最佳答案
according to your case, you are not selfish ^u^
it is normal to be afraid of losing friends. (although it is not necessary~)
when we go out with friends, there always is someone being the convener.
will you feel disturbed when your friends date you?
Absolutely not! you are friends!!!
the most important thing you need to do is to ENLARGE your social circle (make more friends). it sounds difficult but it can be simple *u*
Don't be afraid of telling others something about yourself.(even something ashamed)
Don't force others to serve you think they should.
Be true to yourself and others.(never act as someone who is not you)
Remember, don't put pressure onto your friend. it will frighten him/her.
just let it be...
everyone has friends in the world. it is just the matter of whether you notice him carefully.
human relationship is a life-long lesson. add oil , be happy ^3^
參考: experience
2007-05-20 3:58 am
你呢d都唔算係自私呀!!!
你只不過係希望可以同你既朋友之間既友誼keep住姐!!
2007-05-18 1:02 pm
咁又唔算係自私既,,都明白妳會擔心..好似得番自己咁
如果佢真係覺得煩,,我諗佢直情唔理妳啦..
我覺得KEEP唔KEEP到,,要睇你地2個有冇心..
有心就1定KEEP到,,我有2個小學到而家既朋友仲好好,,其餘有幾個中學既
都仲成日出黎...所以如果有心而又真係好好朋友既,,都應該冇問題既=]
參考: 自己..
2007-05-18 7:31 am
唔同階段,自然會有唔同既朋友,有時候有d野係無可避免嫁......

中五各散東西之後,就會慢慢疏離嫁啦,不過你地住得近都ok既,得閒未約出黎傾下計囉.......咁都keep到d既...
2007-05-18 6:47 am
基本上每個人都係自私o既! 所以閣下唔係特別自私一群..... 不過閣下朋友似係一個唔會好主動約朋友o既人! 只不過友誼係要自己努力去用時間証明先至寶貴! 所以閣下唔好成日諗佢有無bf先,首先要保持聯繫唔好成日驚煩住佢,當然閣下係要適當地出現而且關心個朋友,個朋友會明白o既! 因為第日出來做事,見面時間都要控制得好,所以就算第時大個見面少d,都可以保持友好關係o既! ^^
參考: me 的經驗
2007-05-18 6:43 am
你唔算係自私。我只能說一句天下無不散之言夕。
2007-05-18 6:37 am
你地識左6,7年,都應該"打開天'昌'說亮話啦^^
2007-05-18 6:34 am
唔算係自私

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