im a 6 grader and a lebian likes me she keps on asking me out and i keep saying no, but she keeps on asking ma and asking me she even asked if i can kiss her, hug her or hold her hand!!! shes ugly and has a big nose!! what shoul i do??
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I doesn't matter if she's a girl or boy, if you don't feel comforatble tell her to stop bothering you and let your teacher / parent knows about. it.
First of all, realize that this behavior is not okay, no matter if the person is a boy or a girl or gay or straight.
Tell your teacher that someone keeps flirting with you even though you say stop, and ask what she can do to help. If she won't help, talk to another teacher, your parents or the principal.
If that's too embarrassing for you, you can write a note without signing your name and give it to your teacher.
tell her you aren't interested and that she's creeping you out. if she doesn't give it up, don't worry about being sensitive or delicate about it, tell her to back off and leave you alone. nobody should be treated that way.
Report her to your guidance counselor.
The guidance counselor will handle the situation delicately.
this girl might be just playing around and trying to get attention. To me...thats a pretty weird way to get attention if she isn't really a lesbian. I don't think kids can really decide that early on that that's what they are..tell a teacher. she'll get emmbarrased most likely if she isn't, or find a way to tell her to go away!
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If you are 12 you shouldn't be going on any dates yet. You are too young. If any other girl asked me for a date, I would tell her to get lost. Go find someone else. Not interested. That isn't so hard. You shouldn't need to explain anything to her. That should be saying enough. Is this person your age or some- one older? At any rate, unless you are gay, tell her to get lost.
It isn't about her being a girl and likeing a girl, I became a lesbian when I was 11, anyways. I would report it to a teacher not because she's trying to hit on another girl, but because she won't stop bothering you. Never say that you hate gay people in a public place, learn it from my mistake, I was influenced by my Mother.
Even if you like her you might feel weird about it later. I hope she's your age or you should say no for sure because she might have older people issues that would be too difficult for you to handle psychologically or emotionally and it could interfere with especially your education. If she's older than you maybe you can tell an older family member you trust to talk to her about why you're not interested, preferrably not a parent though because they might cause her more problems than she has already
at this age kids get confused with their sexuality issues, but if u liked her u would have no problem getting intimate with her
it has nothing to do with her being lesbian or u not knowing your sexual preferences yet, she's just not your type, cut her off and wait untill smb you'r really into comes along
Tell mom and dad that girl is molesting you. If mom or dad are not around tell your teacher , the school pricipal or the nearest adult you can find . More important dont show fear for the girl. She doesnt have the right molest you nor to ask to do those things you dont want. If she doesnt stop , kick her hard , make a big holler or punch an eye.Also show mom and dad your question posted in yahoo so they know they have an assertive young lady in the house.