As we pay a lot of emotions to a friend, finally, at last, but everybody's relation breaks with, we will tell sadly Oneself, don't throw the friend into so many emotions either afterwards. The more you regard him as the bosom friend , the higher your expectation to him is. The more you pay the emotion , the more you think that some things are the natural falling out for the interests , then not worth being regrettable , can not stand The interests are tested, prove that you have not paid the most sincere emotion . And misunderstand for some principles but fall out, that makes us sad. Then, as don't pay the emotion to the friend that know each other newly. However, does not pay the emotion , how may send to the friend? Originally, question whether we pay too many emotion, unwilling to be honest we have. You thought it much less so clear, in fact, was necessary. It can't be so honest that you thought, in fact, when some things were unable to solve , it is the best method to be honest. I will not do it in this way in the past, however, in order to no longer lose the friend of my true love, I will be honest afterwards. You do not know how to refuse his proposition , might as well tell him honestly , but not let the excuse refuse him in addition. You might as well tell him honestly to some things that you do while liking him. You disagree with view of him, it is can honest to say your view to be heavy. A bit more honest, you may make and lack some friends , but you will make more real friends.
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When we pay very many sentiments to a friend, finally, everybody relations actually break off, we can sadly tell oneself, later will not have to invest that many sentiment to the friend. You treat as him the friend, you are also higher to his anticipation. You pay the sentiment, thought some matters are natural quarrel for the benefit, that is unworthy was a pity, withstand the benefit test, proved you have not paid the most sincere sentiment. Quarrels for some principles and the misunderstanding, that is makes one to feel bad. Then, was inferior to do not have to pay the sentiment again to the new acquaintance's friend. However, does not pay the sentiment, how also possibly makes the friend? Originally, the question is not we pays too many sentiments, but is we is not willing to confess. You thought does not need to say that clearly, actually, has the necessity. You thought cannot that confess, when actually, some matters are unable the solution, confesses is the best method. I before cannot do this, however, in order to no longer loses the friend which I loves, I later will be able to confess. You did not know how resists his proposition, was inferior to honestly tells him, but the pretext resists him in addition. You do not like him some matters which does to you, was inferior to honestly tells him. You did not agree his viewpoint, greatly may honestly say your view. Confesses 1., you possibly can make the few some friends, but you can make many some genuine friends.