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咁你咪響呢個月反省下囉`
佢既然想冷靜你刀無計`
你要響呢個月諗清楚喇
佢咁樣刀系想俾機會你改姐
你快d改好d啦`實會一齊番既=]

男人是好衰，　他的心不在妳，　忘記吧，　不要等他回來，　

我覺得你首先要了解究竟發生了甚麼事?
究竟是要你冷靜? 還是他要冷靜?
是誰發生了問題?
冰封三尺非一日之寒, 你試想想你們之間是否發生了甚麼事?
還是有人從中作梗? 要知道事情的原委才能對症下藥,
解決問題才會事半功倍.
找其他人問問吧!
或直接問他, 記住不要讓他再冷靜下去了!
既然不是他願意說你們沒有未來,
那中間一定有人從中作梗,
夾在你們二人之間!
而且他還需要更多時間去考慮就是証明他對你仍未忘情,仍未放下,
你也應立刻阻止他胡思亂想下去,
和他好好談談, 讓他從拾你們美好的回憶.
更讓他相信, 只要你們肯努力,能堅持, 你們就必定有將來.

first of all, u should ask yrself, does this man still worth u spending time with him, waiting for him?? what, wait for a month?? what for? what happen after 1 month? ok, if there is no future of u two, why wait for a month? no point at all, so, it is just an excuse to get rid of u. after a month, he wont come back. why does him hestitate?? is there someone else that he prefers, and u are the reserve? u are the one to answer this. so, together for 5 yrs, that is 60 months, why bother for another month?? dont u see his point?? one month is just an excuse for breaking up, or u are the reserve, do u want to standby?? u better ask yrself these questions before making any move!!
may god give u wisdom on this!!