1.My father always wanted to go on bike rides and I said no way are you getting me on my bike. Well for some annoying reason, he always did and I was always stuck riding my bike all through town.
2. If they could, they would, when they were ready.
3.However, by eventually contributing to their father's memorial service, my children helped themselves to face their grief and confront their feelings in a way that they might not have had I not asked them.
thx