救命啊,點先可以忘記他?幫下我啊

2007-04-17 9:13 pm
同他分左手差唔多三個月拉,之前分手係因爲他有左第二個,分手嗰陣時我仲好中意他,既然他已經有第二個,我唔應該再去留戀他!最終一拍兩散............每次都好想打比他,但一定要忍住,唔可以打,唔可以比他知道我仲中意他,唔可以比他覺得我無左他唔得!
但後尾,他亦都有搵我,因爲他已經同他條女散左,不過他無提出同我復合!就甘,我地就keeo住朋友ge關係,但我覺得他仲中意我!而我對他就開始淡左,但仍有感覺,如果他唔打電話比我,我就好唔開心,好想他理下我!最近,他好唐突,話想同番我一齊喔,我等左他呢句話好耐拉,我應承左他!不過去到第二日,他又唔打比我,唔理我,唔知他想點,我好嬲!同他sms,他爆粗閙我,又話我咩八婆,我好hurt,他比完希望我又要令我失望,我同自己講唔可以原諒他,我甘第個女第一次甘比人話法,但我始終都忍唔住理番他,但我仍然好嬲!他又話同番我一齊,我唔肯,點都唔肯!鬼叫他甘閙我呀,態度差到死!不過我始終忘記唔到他,我驚我會心軟,同番他一齊,我唔要再比他傷多次,你地教下我,我應該點做????????????好煩啊

回答 (8)

2007-04-17 9:34 pm
✔ 最佳答案
我都覺得係唔好再同佢一齊~~你應該搵下FD~盡量唔好諗.

大家性格唔岩,吵架就會多,勉強一齊會一次比一次傷心

佢都用粗口鬧你,又同第個一齊過,咁佢有幾愛你你自己清楚,兩個人的事,別人會好難明

(我都試過)..佢可能當初真係愛過你,但現在佢感情變了~感到寂寞先搵你

到佢遇到第二個好傾D GE~你都知會點,到時你又傷多次.

忘記人係難,你同一齊個陣時光可變成回憶,唔好後悔過同佢一齊.因為你地真係開心過

你對佢一條心,但佢唔同了~~

所以希望你可以學識放低
參考: 過來人
2007-04-18 1:59 am
要忘記D衰人好容易﹗只要將注意力和心機全放在其他事情上,例如﹕家人、朋友、工作和做吓義工,說不定可以識到個人品好又型仔的男社工﹗
2007-04-17 10:19 pm
唔好再諗佢la~~明白忘記好難~
但你已經俾左兩次機會佢同自己la~~
我同你一樣ar情況.你諗下你沒做錯過~~
點解要令自己一次一次咁俾人傷害~~
就算幾愛佢都好la..一個字..忍~~
做d可以令自己開心既事~~
唔好再因呢個人而唔開心~~


快樂是一瞬即逝的..
大笑過後便消失得無影無蹝..
悲哀是恆久而堅持的..
刻在你心裏,,腦海裏..

豁達是給別人看和說服自己用的,,
並不代表我不悔,,不恨。

某些記憶可能被歲月淡化..
可是,,一旦記起..
原有的顏色還沒有褪去..

魔鬼的笑容,,
背後有太多傷害..
2007-04-17 9:42 pm
你好叻呀, 起碼你堅持不跟他一齊. 忘記人是很難的事, 除非意外失憶, 在你的case中, 並不覺得你會好煩, 因為他曾豪不留情駡你, 就算係你錯, 做男人的都不懂大方, 更不懂體貼人, 而且他亦有見異思遷的前科, 說得難聽只不過用你來攝時間, 你亦太明顯地讓佢知道你仲鐘意佢, 令佢當你係後備情人. 除非你甘願做佢的後備, 自認係賣剩庶or籮底橙, 否則這種人你還要掛念嗎? 還要留情嗎? 還會心軟嗎? 你的尊嚴放到那兒去?
你只要不再聽佢電話, 不理佢一段日子, 可以的話快快找個new boy friend, 佢就會找第二個唔煩你.
參考: myself
2007-04-17 9:38 pm
I always think I have missed a lot of good girls when I was a young man. But that was it as being young. You thought you had lots of opportunities ahead and did not care what you already had. You took every thing as granted. Not until you get older and (if lucky enough) will be able to meet your final girl, you will then settle down. However, you never know when this will happen....it's a long process.

My suggestion to you is to keep your eyes and mind open for all opportunities that may come to you. You may change your attitude and thinking completely if you start knowing other people and doing comparison. Don't wait for your boy friend to turn around...as I said it could be a long process, but TIME is precious to you. If he miss this good chance just let he misses it and be regretful for the rest of his life.

Good luck!
2007-04-17 9:34 pm
等我幫下你啊 ‧佢成日甘閙你呀,態度差到死!你係唔係吔吔過先?如果唔係重何必留戀
根本唔直得你愛佢‧成堆屎泔‧人渣。(戀愛係互相尊敬‧互從亙愛‧)容勿易結埋婚後打到豬頭咁。
2007-04-17 9:24 pm
你搵其他野做下,or同d朋友出下街啦,搵多d野做可以令自己忘記d唔開心的事,男人之嘛,你孜唔係冇左佢唔得,世界甘大,你總會搵到一個適合你的,既然佢又對你唔好,仲要用粗口罵你,你仲留戀佢做咩,你不如扮靚d,搵個另一個仲好啦
忘記係需要用時間,我都要用成年時間才能完全忘記,努力啦!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-17 9:19 pm
You can do something you like to do!
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