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You really need to seek the help of a professional pet behaviorist. "Rehabilitating" fearful dogs can be done and it can be one of the most rewarding things in the world. But it takes a LOT of time and patience and very few pet owners are successful on their own, especially if they have never dealt with the issues that fear aggression brings with them. That your new dog is already learning to trust your husband is a good sign.
Another thing I would like to point out that honest-to-goodness aggression and aggressive behaviors are not the same thing. This is another reason to find a trainer/behaviorist who is experienced with fearful dogs. Aggressive behaviors like growling can be part of normal healthy dog communication. You don't mention the specifics of what's happening when your new dog growls at the other dog. Depending on what your dog is doing, he may be invading the new guys personal space or crossing a line that he isn't comfortable with yet. If that is the case, then it is appropriate for the new dog to growl at the other dog to let the other one know "hey, I don't appreciate that and if you don't stop it I'm gonna have to bite you!" This is especially true if the other dog has ignored other more subtle warning signs (like tensing or lip curling). Punishing a dog (especially a fearful dog) for displaying aggressive warning signals like growling can lead to the disappearance of those warnings without doing anything to address the fear that is causing the reaction. Then you end up with a "time bomb" dog who is afraid but is also afraid of warning you of his insecurities. These dogs are likely to bite "out of the blue" because they have been taught not to display their natural warning signs (and most people are too dense to pick up on any warning more subtle than a growl).
Good luck! As the owner of a fearful dog I can tell you that this will be a long and trying journey for you. But it can be one of the most fulfilling experiences too. Just don't try it on your own.