想請問大家（最好已婚人士解答）

Of course it is better to talk things before marriage. It helps each other to understand each other and have a good plan before anything happens.

Regarding the money, as you are willing to spend the rest of your life with him/her. It would be good to share ideas and responsibilities. List out all the items the family will spend and list check out for each item who can afford. It would be good to set up a common account (I am using this method myself). All the expense draw out from this account, then all you two would be to work out an amount for each month. After you give your part and your partner give his/hers. Then no need to worry who pays what.

I would suggest a table or list of topics in your mind. Also, ask him/her to list out his/her ideas too. Then talk as a game for each week or each month before marriage. It helps each other to understand each other more and more. Remember, no need to have one common answer, the process is to help each other to understand each other.

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我暫時跟老公及其家人一起住，我只給家用娘家，奶奶個邊會由老公負責，至於水電煤會由老公及其細佬負責交費。好多使費多數由老公負責，因為我人工唔多。

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