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No, you are the person you know yourself to be right now. The best route in life is to fully accept who you are right now, "I'm okay just the way I am. I fully accept myself." Figure out what the strengths of your personality are, and what areas are challenging for you, while continuing to fully accept who you are. Find places where you can match your strengths to opportunities. In the areas in which you aren't naturally strong, but wish to improve, you can find ways to stretch youself and learn to function better.
Where most of us go wrong is by not valuing what we naturally bring to the table, and thinking that until we change things, we aren't okay. Value who you are now. Accept who you are. Look at yourself realistically. Only then can you really effectively become better in those areas that are challenging for you and actually enjoy the process of improvement. In areas you target to improve in, experiment with acting "as if". If you want to be more assertive, ask yourself, "How would I be acting right now if I felt more assertive?" and then act in that way as best you can (posture, tone of voice, etc). You don't wait to feel that way. You could end up waiting forever, you behave your way into the feeling.
Those who don't accept themselves first are on an endless treadmill of feeling they have to improve and achieve just to be acceptable, but they never get there.
BTW the traits you listed are ones we need more of in the world.