男女間的純友誼

當兩個人之間都有認為對方只係朋友既話

當然可以是純友誼

但尼個情況好細機會會發生

因為男女之間既異性相及

多數會以為自己愛上對方

好難控制到自己既愛戀情緒

當一男一女長大到成熟既年令既時候

控制能力就隨之而増強

更能明白男女之間的友誼觀念

但...最重要還是要雙方都有共識

認定對方不會成為愛侶

但有時候...太過汁著這樣事

反而會令自己不自覺戀上對方

so呢...尼d事

還是順其自然

控制自己的情慾吧

可以, 我多數朋友也是異性, 也是純友誼的, 當然, 若覺得他/她是自己的拍拖對象也可要求做自己的另一半, 但也可以是知己. 知己難求, 為什麼會焗限自己的知己是同性呢? 同性是否一定可以傾得埋呢? 我自己就覺得跟異性有更多話題啦. 當然不代表可以同居啦.

當然可以.
愛分好多種,它們之間都只有一線之差.
人類都是依靠倫理道德去分別.
一男一女之間有友誼和愛情之分.
前者是被此了解,然後昇華到後者.
通常了解得越深,就更愛不下去.
在了解的過情中會有一個轉捩點---通電
如果被此也有這種感覺,就會昇華到愛情.
到那一刻,那一男一女就要作出選擇,love or friendship.
是friendship的話,他們就該一直與通電對抗,
直至感覺消失,他們就會成為一對朋友.

是可以的﹐ 我就有一個很好的異性朋友﹐又無所不談﹐好朋友之間是要互相帮助和信任的﹐如果因為性別的關係而有隔膜在其中﹐又怎算是好朋友或深交﹐又怎樣叫友愛呢﹐別人怎樣看又有何關係呢。

I think so. I have friends who I have no intention of getting involved in romantically. It is usually the case that people have different lifestyles of living (not really compatible), and that both are physically not attracted to each other. (Doesn't mean unattractive.....more like not the type)

However most of these cases often starts out with some common interests and sometimes an attraction to each other. So some might start out as a normal relationship.It is through interactions and communications one gets to know one another. Usually there are somethings that make girlfriend/boyfriend relationships don't work, because of difference in viewpoints on relationships, physically attractiveness, etc.

Usually it would be that one can support the other, give good opinions on work, life, and other things that make friends lasting. Caring, appreciation and Trust also comes later on.

Hope it helps.

2007-04-06 02:44:08 補充：
例如我有啲女性朋友啲男女關係我不敢苟同，但她們很聰明，也對人生無所不談，並很有見解，所以我和她們也是幾好的朋友。

可以。不過大前提係你要覺得佢唔係你對象，而佢又覺得你唔係佢對象。
於是得出一個結論就係，雙方都已經有partner or 類似的情況先可以(in case of 其中一方係喜歡同性)。

試諗下，如果一男一女熟到無所不談，當然就自自然然會認為自己鐘意對方，有發展的空間。咁樣落去，純友誼又會變成所謂的「不純正」。

純粹表達一下自己的意見。(^ - ^)">