我的感情生活成唔成熟?

你的愛情觀最差今日嘅初初細個果時,而最好係你認真專一果時,
其實呢d都唔代表你感情觀終於成熟,只不過係感情觀的轉變,你明唔明呀?
細個果時因為少接觸女仔所以怕醜,唔敢同鐘意既女仔表白,而拖泥帶水,幽猶寡斷,失去樹會都唔知,
當大小小果時,可能你遇上一個你好愛嘅人,所以會好想同佢一齊,認定佢係你最重要的人,但係因為某d野分開咗,當然好傷心,
但後來經過時間洗禮,可能會所謂諗通d野,對感情可以愛,亦可以放得下,或者自己曾受傷,就會變得唔理人感受,而花心嘅原因,係而家仲未搵到一個俾你以前好愛的更好,所以會覺得唔洗咁認真,不斷追求豐富的感情生活...
但係其實咁嘅轉變,變到不斷追求豐富的感情生活,係咪一件好事呢?
答案你自己先知la,不過咁會對其他人唔公平咗d,
當你疑惑緊問人"我既轉變反映我的感情觀終於成熟嗎？"
其實你可以下意識會諗咁係咪正確,而你其實只不過想知一個答案,一個真理.
我話知,真實無野係俾真摯嘅愛情重要,關心你最愛嘅人,俾人有安全感,如果對人好d,人哋係feel到的,所以我認為唔應該因為錯折,而變得唔成熟,其實如果你唔專一同樣人哋可能同時都係玩玩,
其實最成熟的感情觀係"令愛的人得到幸福"
希望可以解答到你la

2007-04-01 00:15:22 補充：
第4行打錯字,機會先岩

2007-04-03 00:11:49 補充：
你同個ex完了,你可以開始另一段愛情,再好好戀愛,對新的專一,如果唔係就對新果個唔公平架,開始一段新感情唔好搵人做代替品

oh, my case is 99% same as you (only different is me and my gf still together). I know how you feel it now, actually honestly i can say that you are not mature enought. I can see you had been hurt by your ex-gf that's why make you from 專一 to 花心. Because you think that "流水細唔長,食快餐就算". Usually people who 感情專一 will ask themself are they mature enought so i can see you didn't change. You are those kind of 感情專一, if you 追求豐富的感情生活 then the girls may hurt you more cause they can see that from your talk and your movement. You always stay in your mind , that a world with perfect and peaceful but actually the real world isn't that your thought. I think you can just forget about it and wait for someone to likes you. I was just like you before , always think i am mature eought but i know that i am still learning

變了....變得傻!

有人告訴我一個可愛事:
當你看過見過觸動.....試過痛過哭過....如何享受, 如何沈醉, 如果傷過, 如果忘記過,
咁如果記憶呢, 會否比較過!

當你曾經接觸太多, 要求就會一次比一次高, 一次一次看到的不再是純真ge感官享受....

而是...床上我主觀感受, 何必將愛情ge神秘感破壞, 留下心裡最美ge回憶, 對嗎?

可能你覺得我慌轇, 我確係有如何?

我只將情美化, 不要劃破~

2007-04-01 00:04:25 補充：
如果今日你因為如此而追求豐富的感情生活, 到頭來你會和你ex女友有乜分別呢,真正開心咩?

2007-04-01 00:19:55 補充：
仲有, 想話俾你知我都係一個守候者, 我唔會因為咁而胡亂遺留感情係人地身上, 因為你俾ge愛最終會成為傷害, 雖然我未擁有過, 但我未後悔過! 有好多人都將他們ge愛胡亂放, 放下不知所終, 你會點, 她們都是受傷害,一刀見皮, 十刀見傷口, 會有血架, 你明白嗎??

2007-04-01 00:31:30 補充：
愛一個人雖然好難得到要乜結果, 但有一回頭再看過程, 你一定會心微笑ge, 信我啦!!

2007-04-01 00:36:16 補充：
希望你心態依舊, 找到個啱你ge愛人, 祝福你!

感情觀要成熟.. .
應該係感情專一、認真和穩定~
有住遠景(vision)=有未來~~
甚至會為另一半著想~

嗯~~至於你的"不斷追求豐富的感情生活" . . .
如果係搵不斷女友黎"試" 就唔算成熟啦~
有成熟感情的人係應該經過詳細考慮對方條件合適長久發展 先追求對方~
而非"騎牛搵馬" 的心態~

我就覺得未......一個感情觀成熟ge人係唔會追求豐富的感情生活...
只會追求一個可以同佢終生ge男人~!!!!!!