我想知....

2007-03-19 10:59 am
我係鍾意咗嗰男老師,我係女學生
我同唔同佢表白??
如果同佢表白,點樣同佢表白呀??
佢好似有女朋友呀!
點算呀??

回答 (7)

2007-03-19 4:24 pm
✔ 最佳答案
撇除你係學生佢係老師呢個身份既時候,
單純以一男一女去睇, 你知道佢有女朋友,
仲要中個頭埋去, 呢個其實已經唔係咁好,
做一個第三者去破壞人地感情係天理不容既事實,
即使好彩地比你撬到過黎, 他朝難保佢都可以比第二個撬走,
你表白係單純為左想佢知定想同佢一齊呢?
呢個你自己都要搞清楚~

曾經都見過師生戀係成功左仲要係結左婚,
但世俗眼光為世不容~

再者求學時期, 請你努力吧!
2007-03-19 9:02 pm
表白,
不管佢有冇女友,你都要表白,
你令自己安心,
不要最後後悔
2007-03-19 7:38 pm
你唔好傻la~~我唔可以全部ar sir都係咁衰,但係以我所知,有好多所謂ar sir既物體,都似住自己係ar sir去溝學生妹兼呃佢上床,加上依加有條咁大既魚遊埋黎,做貓既會唔食????由我讀書到依加都識人有d咁既事lor,好多男人(唔只係ar sir)都似住自己好似有d料都做埋d咁既野架~~~再講就算佢唔係d咁既人,又彧者佢有冇女朋友,你同佢真係一齊,你同佢之間會有好大距離,未必溝通到or相處得黎,因為佢見既同你見既係真係好唔同~~~其實你要清楚知道自己係咪鐘意佢,定係因為佢係ar sir,佢對學生好(姐係你)令你有錯覺先?!佢工作需要,關心同對學生好係一定架wor~~~~
參考: 我自己
2007-03-19 7:29 pm
我覺得你都放棄表白na !
始終師生戀最後都冇結果.
你如果真係要同佢表白.. 佢一定會同你保持距離 -0-"
到時你咪仲辛苦 `
不如你識過第2D男仔na !!
何況. 可能佢真係已經有中意既人 !
參考: me
2007-03-19 5:44 pm
師生戀只有兩個結果:

1.她和你一起,但將失去這職業或要轉行。

2.如果他有太太的,你會更痛苦。

在成長中,各人都認為老師對你好些,你就誤認為他對你好,但要知道將來
還有很多對象會陸續來,完成了學習階段,將來你會遇到更好的。
2007-03-19 1:48 pm
你走錯咗,老師不能搞師生戀的,及他己有女朋友。算把喇!
2007-03-19 11:10 am
young lady,
there is nothing wrong to 鍾意咗嗰男老師 !
However, PLEASE don't 同佢表白! because You should NOT mess around with the person you like ....
表白 is just a way to reduce the single sided pressure on your side.
It does not meant anything .... it does not meant you will have HIM as BF or anything ...
Contrastly, he can stop avoiding you or report your case to principal (headmaster) and it can be so uncomfortable situation ...
Like you said, if he already has GF or so ... case is even worst ...
since he look at you as his student .... and I think he care about the JOB (as teacher) ... more than anything ....
so all you can do now is say NOTHING!!!! keep it in your heart ....
You can treat him good ... but as TEACHER .... nothing further ...
because you don't want to mess up his life ....
OK, after you graduate, while you both are no longer TEACHER-STUDENT relationship ...
then at that time, you can tell him once you are in love with him and admire him ...
at that time it is a FAIR deal ... = FRIEND-FRIEND relationship ....
who knows what can happen ?
BUT for now .... never do anything ... focus on the education and respect him ...
and respect yourself ...
good luck :)
參考: Helped so many female/male teachers to handle similar situation.

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