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Miss,
sorry to say, from the above, all I can say he is a gentleman,
and you are one-sided loving him.
He is more treating you like a friend ...
There is no special meaning that he did all those little things for you.
He will do the same to his sister and lady friends. Take it easy.
You had been rejected for couple times, and you are still waiting for him.
Meaning you really like him .... and you really want to have him as BF !
Stop hurting other boys in between, because all those boys are just substitution
being used by you, because your heart is over that DREAM-MAN you are pursuing ...
Now, how to win his love ? Hard to say, since if he is a nice man like you described, He has it own CUP OF TEA, and he always know he deserve someone
he really like with his gentleman style and fine conditions ...
He is not HOLDING on to you, YOU are HOLDING ON TO HIM ....
so I give you a little suggestion, stop seeing him quietly .... don't create any drama ... no crying, no nothing, just disappear ...
Don't call him, don't see him ....
Since you already show him that YOU LOVE HIM ... and there is nothing you can do more ... on your side ... so it is time for him to do something extra for you ...
so let him MISS you ... let him feel that YOU MEANT IT ....
and when he finally look for you .... and ask .... "Why you disappear ... ?"
You said "I really love you, but I don't want to hold on to you too much, while you don't have interest in me .... I want to provide you with breathing room !"
and he will do the rest !
OK, I think he will definitely look for you ... the above idea should work ...
if you don't have confidence that he will look for you .... then ... don't execute the idea ... because you are not ready ... to believe you have the power to make him do something for you ....
Courtship is an art .... you need some manipulation on minds ...
good luck ... I think I give you some ideas ...
Stop seeing all those other boys because the more boys you saw .... the dream-man may think you are flirty ... and not a good girl that MATCH him .... so be smart ... and HUNT for this DREAM-MAN ... and if he does not look for you ...
it is TIME to move on and forget him .... and let him be your friend ... a brother ...
and stop wasting time with him ...
Good luck :)
