好聽的分手原因可以是什麼?.

2007-03-09 8:46 am
我想同現在的男朋友分手,我們拍了半年了,不是我喜歡了其他人,也不是他對我不好,而是
1.當初喜歡他是因為他對我好好,但我現在覺得我感激他多過喜歡他...是我錯把這兩種感覺混亂了......
2.他沒有工作和讀書,想叫他努力,講了,好似不大作用..我不想我好似好煩咁日日叫佢做野等...但他要為自己想想...
心中一直想講分手,但我如何講?說出真的原因?但是很傷人...好聽的分手原因可以是什麼?.
更新1:

我一直想我可能有一天真的喜歡他,但發覺很難...每次見到他都有內疚的感覺..他對我好好,真的不想太傷他的心...

回答 (5)

2007-03-09 7:29 pm
✔ 最佳答案
對他最好的方法是告訴他「事實」,雖然是殘酷,但告訴他一個美麗的謊言,對他來說是更殘酷。將你所想,所講,所感受到的一一告訴他,使他清楚明白到他不足的地方,但緊記著,盡量不要傷害他。無人分手係唔傷心的,但你要將佢所要受到的傷害減到最低。

P.S. 我想在此讚揚你的真誠,真的不受他便勇敢地告訴他,不要欺騙他,不要浪費他的時間。
2007-03-09 10:57 pm
無必要講事實. 對男人黎講, 你講乜野 "事實" 既理由都唔多聽得入耳.

你鍾意既, 簡簡單單
"我唔鍾意你, 分手啦!!"
"我覺得我地性格不合, 分手啦!!'
"同你齊, 你唔再比到開心我, 分手啦!!"
再瀟酒o的 "我地分手啦." (消失於佢既世界中)
2007-03-09 11:13 am
Please kindly let him know the truth, as soon as possible.
Ya, he may get hurt and feel shocked, but better than just think an excuse and lie..
It would be a proper way to treat him good, let him know how you think, also the reasons
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2007-03-09 10:20 am
Just be honest with him dont lie. Tell him what you have in your mind. If you lie and he finds out later it'll make it even more worse. Tell him why you think that things are not gonna work out
2007-03-09 9:05 am
直接講,唔好呃佢,如果呃佢你良心都唔好過,至少要俾佢知道分手嘅真正原因。

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