children not attending to family gathering

2007-03-07 10:21 pm
my son do not joint any family gathering. my in-laws blamed me everytime when they do not see my son. as few times I have been blamed, I did not go to them during lunar new year because I do not know how to say and I am not in an advantage situation if I show her face because everybody there are their family members. she said it is my responsibility to teach him. what should I do. another gathering coming on 10/3 how to do

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2007-03-08 1:12 am
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How old is your son?? I'm girl, 25 yrs old, and i won't attend the family gathering too. I dun like to gathering with my family. Because they ask me too many question and too many people (around 15 ). I only accept to dinner with my own family (just my sister, mum and dad). U need to find out the reason why your son didnt attend the gathering.

2007-03-08 10:29:28 補充:
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