我應否嫁他(急)
2007-03-05 9:47 pm
我和他快結婚了，他是一個學歷比我低、收入比我低的人。但突然間父母介紹一個有學歷有身家的男仔，其實，這個男仔是我父母世交的兒子。他去年離了婚，想找另一伴。他們的要求是：我必須先和未婚夫了斷，再跟他發展。但婚期在即，我應該怎樣做？
回答 (8)
2007-03-05 9:57 pm
✔ 最佳答案
你父母明知你要結婚都仲介紹男仔比你?!好明顯你父母根本就唔想你嫁比現在這個將要同你結婚的男人。
你先想清楚你愛不愛你的未婚夫,
如果是係因為有學歷、有身家就想試下,
我覺得你鍾意既唔係佢個人,只係覺得佢比到你幸福既機會大0的。
如果你睇唔起你未婚夫,你當初點解要同佢攪結婚?!
結婚是一生的事、是認真的事,點解唔諗清楚先決定去做?
如果你根本覺得現在的未婚夫比唔到幸福你,你當初就唔應該應承和他結婚吧,不要將結婚一事看得那麼兒戲。
凡事做之前,請三思。唔係會傷害到好多人、亦會傷害到你自己。
2007-03-15 4:48 am
Answer the following question and you should have an answer afterwards:
1) Who do u love?
2) Are you happier with the new guy?
3) Who loves you more?
3) What have they done for you so far?
4) Do u mind your husband earning less than u? is he a guy with career mind? does he have any plan for his career? is there any career opportunity with his current job?
5) What is the reason of the divorce? what does it say? Do u want to be with a guy who were once married to another woman? do you want to live under the shadow of that woman?
6) How long have u been with your current BF? why did u start the relationship with him in the first place? and has he been nice to you?
7) Now, think about it, who do u love?
To me, I'll go for the person I have feelings for, and of course, the person who loves me more... The one who will not leave me when he meets another woman who is prettier/ richer/ has higher educational background/ has a better job/ have better figure/ younger/ softer/ better singing skill.... (the list will go on... endless)
Think about what so attractive about the new guy beside richer, better education...?
Good luck!
PS: I know u love your current BF, if not you wouldn't have agreed to marry him.
1) Who do u love?
2) Are you happier with the new guy?
3) Who loves you more?
3) What have they done for you so far?
4) Do u mind your husband earning less than u? is he a guy with career mind? does he have any plan for his career? is there any career opportunity with his current job?
5) What is the reason of the divorce? what does it say? Do u want to be with a guy who were once married to another woman? do you want to live under the shadow of that woman?
6) How long have u been with your current BF? why did u start the relationship with him in the first place? and has he been nice to you?
7) Now, think about it, who do u love?
To me, I'll go for the person I have feelings for, and of course, the person who loves me more... The one who will not leave me when he meets another woman who is prettier/ richer/ has higher educational background/ has a better job/ have better figure/ younger/ softer/ better singing skill.... (the list will go on... endless)
Think about what so attractive about the new guy beside richer, better education...?
Good luck!
PS: I know u love your current BF, if not you wouldn't have agreed to marry him.
2007-03-05 10:20 pm
其實好睇你自己點諗囉。。。
我唔明點解你依家要考慮甘多野囉﹐既然你決定左要結婚﹐証明呢個人俾到你幸福先會有甘既決定﹐你唔係依家先知道個男仔乜都比你差架﹐若然你嫌棄﹐點解个要同人結婚呢﹖ 當然我相信屋企人一定俾左唔少壓力你﹐所以令到你有所動搖。但我覺得將來生活係點冇人知﹐俗語都有講﹐女人最怕揀錯郎。冇錯﹐人家係有錢﹐生活上富裕﹐但你肯定佢俾到你幸福嗎﹖女人既青春有限﹐難道你想再用幾年時間去了解一個人嗎﹖
最後﹐希望你得到真正的幸福啦﹗﹗
我唔明點解你依家要考慮甘多野囉﹐既然你決定左要結婚﹐証明呢個人俾到你幸福先會有甘既決定﹐你唔係依家先知道個男仔乜都比你差架﹐若然你嫌棄﹐點解个要同人結婚呢﹖ 當然我相信屋企人一定俾左唔少壓力你﹐所以令到你有所動搖。但我覺得將來生活係點冇人知﹐俗語都有講﹐女人最怕揀錯郎。冇錯﹐人家係有錢﹐生活上富裕﹐但你肯定佢俾到你幸福嗎﹖女人既青春有限﹐難道你想再用幾年時間去了解一個人嗎﹖
最後﹐希望你得到真正的幸福啦﹗﹗
2007-03-05 10:05 pm
愛一個人,唔會計較佢任何嘢!你和未婚夫有許多經歷...唔通為左你父母世交的兒子,就同他一齊,冇理由~~~除非.....你已經鍾意左佢
2007-03-05 10:05 pm
你的確需要好好考慮，因為你問得依個問題，同埋你所提出比較o既重點，學歷、收入...你或許並唔係真心愛你未婚夫，諗下從前你地點樣認識，你同佢曾有咩經歷，或許可以幫你清晰起黎。
2007-03-05 10:01 pm
其實..
我想問一句..好真心既...
而家係你結婚..定係你父母結婚??
如果係你既..你鍾以同邊個..就同果位結婚lo
學歷..收入唔代表d咩既..
咁如果咁講..d女老闆..咪一世做死姑婆??
你鍾以既人..都係鍾以佢個人姐..唔會係鍾以佢既錢架ma
係咪!!
其實仲有個方法既..
你可以打上去新香蕉俱樂部
係夜晚1:00a.m打上去..同佢地傾下ar
佢地會有好好既見意比到你
電話1834997
我想問一句..好真心既...
而家係你結婚..定係你父母結婚??
如果係你既..你鍾以同邊個..就同果位結婚lo
學歷..收入唔代表d咩既..
咁如果咁講..d女老闆..咪一世做死姑婆??
你鍾以既人..都係鍾以佢個人姐..唔會係鍾以佢既錢架ma
係咪!!
其實仲有個方法既..
你可以打上去新香蕉俱樂部
係夜晚1:00a.m打上去..同佢地傾下ar
佢地會有好好既見意比到你
電話1834997
2007-03-05 9:51 pm
我覺得你應該嫁俾佢，，，（你中意戈個男仔）
如果你嫁左俾你父母世交的兒子ＧＡ話，，
你會一生後悔～～
如果你嫁左俾你父母世交的兒子ＧＡ話，，
你會一生後悔～～
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