感情淡了係咪一定會分手???

2007-03-05 3:49 am
如題~我同女朋友今日係拍拖4個月~但係我好驚日後感情淡左會分手~我咁諗係咪錯~????

回答 (8)

2007-03-05 7:05 am
✔ 最佳答案
其實感情會淡就一定架啦
冇可能2個人係埋一齊一世都好熱情架嘛
吾會永遠都停留係熱戀既時候!
跟住落黎既就係相處.. 愛一個人就係咁!
如果因為話感情淡左就要分手
不如話係自己想搵過第2個或者吾想再同佢一齊
我覺得淡左吾一定要分手
最緊要大家都愛大家! 除非真係發生d咩事
令到大家冇可能一齊落去啦
如果吾係都吾好因為咁而分手!
可以搵到一個你愛而又愛你既人真係好難...

依家驚咩喎! 最緊要依家好好珍惜佢!
2007-03-05 11:28 am
其實拍拖耐咗感情一定唔會好似初相識咁愛得咁痴纏,但你地都係4個月啫,應該都仲係熱戀期,唔應該咁快諗呢d野,愛要表現出來,對方才會知道.如果你而家已經開始諗呢d野,你就唔會再去投入呢段感情,咁對你gf好唔fair,.彼此體諒、關懷的愛情是最真也是最美,其實每一段感情耐咗都會出現一個過渡期,而問題出現咗就要視乎雙方點去解決同面對,因為感情係要雙方面去維繫既,選擇自己所愛的,愛自己所選擇的,在心中深深地愛著一個人,是人的一生中浪漫之最.在感情的世界裡,每個人都是學徒.沒有人能預知彼此的愛戀是否能有情人終成眷屬,唯一能做的便是珍惜與把握.

希望可以幫到你!
參考: 個人意見
2007-03-05 4:50 am
感情轉淡了你還不分手要做什麼?你應該怕的是如果感情轉淡還分不了手怎麼辦?

為了一個不知道會不會發生的情況擔憂,會不會有點無聊?
2007-03-05 4:19 am
Unless you are really in love with her, you are scared that one day you feel you may lose her. I think it is very sweet to think it this way, at least you care about the future with her and you have her in mind. If that is what you are really thinking, good for you, only 4 months and I think she must be the one!!

Try not to worry too much about it and keep her in the know that you love her. Relationship needs to work on, it won't come easily. Both of you have to work hard on it and keep it exciting. Do something together, find something to learn, or go travelling., or try to plan for a future... so you both have a goal to achieve, a direction for love. At least she knows that this relationship is going somewhere.

However, on the other hand, if you are ALREADY feeling bored right now after just 4 months, then I think this is a dead end relationship. You may as well break it up and move on the next one. It will not go far from here and there is no points to keep it as you will hurt her more.

Hope it helps, whatever it is, good luck!!
2007-03-05 4:02 am
其實2個人一齊係好難得,感情淡左可能唔係單一方面既問題,你大可以試下同女朋友坐底傾下(或者佢又有咁既諗法都唔定),既然大家都唔知對方個心係度諗緊咩,咁咪2個坐底傾下囉~或者2個傾完更加了解對方,珍惜對方~
2007-03-05 4:01 am
你咁諗梗係錯la~
同女朋友拍拖4個月就咁淋....
5通你地感情5多好?
2007-03-05 4:00 am
你要多聯絡關心她,你可以參加活動及旅行和她一起,這樣不會感情淡,你要注意你女友喜愛是怎麼,就給她開心,還有她缺點是怎麼,你也要小心就遷她。
參考: 自己
2007-03-05 3:54 am
你keep住聯絡....多d一齊出街....我諗吾會淡掛...除非有突發事件....你梗係吾好咁諗,,,,拍左拖4個月就咁諗....吾好掛....你拍得愈耐..感情就自然愈好..我覺得...所以我覺得你吾洗咁擔心

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