it depends on if ur willing to work hard to keep it goin...it depends on if u can trust the other person enough...it depends on if your willing to talk about everything going so that you can stay open with each other...it depends on if you are willing to go on for a while walkin around seein all the other couples together and it depends on if ur willing on dealin with the pain that comes with it.....no usually they dont work out.....but for me....right now....its goin as well as it possiably can.....so i would say go for it try it out and if it dont work out then im sry.......keep movin foward....but u never kno u could be one of those lucky ppl that it works for.......