✔ 最佳答案
Actually is the "definition" really that important? To me, I think having 好感 is the most basic element to start seeing someone, eventually, when u see the person for a while, when u get to know him better, for eg: his attitude, character, personal tastes, goal, educational background, occupation, family background...etc, you, yourself will be able to tell if you really like him or is it just a crush... I have an experience for falling for someone whom I didn't like initially, but after we hung out for a while, I saw the position part of him and I started liking him. So, give him and yourself a chance, maybe you both can work out, maybe not... just start being friends for awhile and your destiny will take its action somehow, somewhere.
Just DON'T jump into bed with him if you are not sure. Just be FREINDS, treat him like how you treat your other friends. Don't start the "BF/GF" relationship until you are sure about yourself. If he forces you with words like "You don't kiss me/ sleep with me/ hug me... that means u don't like me!"and get angry with you, let him be, that childish action only prove that he is not understanding and not caring for you. Let him be and leave him alone. Don't bother. If he really likes you, he won't do that to you.
Good Luck! I hope you'll find your Mr. Right soon! ;)
