天主教徒可唔可以自慰?

天主教徒可唔可以睇咸片?
no. because when you want it, you will want it ( dont tell me you dont want sex when/ after you watch 咸片 ). so, if you want it, then it is very easy to get yourself into temptation. it is very easy to get you to have sex before marriage. and marriage is a gift from God that you can share everything with your husbnad/wife. if you have sex before marriage, it is 'unclean' and is sinful. with all that consequence, it is not wise to watch 咸片.

天主教徒可唔可以有性幻想?
again, 性幻想 is something that lead you to the lust of having sex. it is sinful because we have to keep our body/mind clean for God. we have to keep our body/mind clean because it said in the bible 'our body is the temple of God'. so, we have to clean 'the temple' clean so that God can stay, works in our everyday life and use us to glorify Him.

天主教徒可唔可以自慰?
surely 自慰 involve 性幻想.
even if you say 自慰 does not involve 性幻想. i would say that it is no good to 自慰. this is because marriage is somthing from God. And in the bible, it saids we have to submit to our husband or to love your wife. and sex is important in marriage. if you use to 自慰. which implies that you used to get your 'satisfied' without 'working' with your partner. if so, you might only know 'how to' get yourself what you want from your wife/husband. but you will not see the importnat of getting your wife/ husband what he/she needs. then, how can you fullfill what the bible say ( submit to husband/ love your wife ) in everyway?!


Basically, sex should be something good and enjoyable. but you would enjoy it without sin unless you have sex in marriage. for couple who marriaged, surely they can have wonderful relationship because they can enjoy the wonderful sex.

有關手淫(自慰)，《天主教教理》有以下教導：

所謂手淫的意思是故意刺激生殖器官，從而得到性的快感。「在一脈相傳、恆久不變的傳統中，無論是教會訓導當局，或是信友的道德意識，都毫不猶豫地肯定，手淫是一個本質上嚴重的錯亂行為」。「無論其動機為何，在正規的夫妻關係以外，故意使用性功能，都違反其目的」。手淫是在性關係以外尋求性的享受，而「性關係為了道德的要求，是應在真正相愛的情況下，實踐彼此交付及人類生育的完整意義」。
為對當事人應負的道德責任作出一個公允的判斷，也為指點牧民的行動，應考慮其感情上的不成熟、沾染惡習的影響、焦慮以及其他心理和社會的因素，把道德責任減少甚至極為輕微。(天主教教理第2352條)

與其說可不可以，倒不如問問為甚麼要這樣做，了解行為背後的動機，才作出判斷。