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man,
you are ok, that is called "MOVING ON", nothing bad.
Girls always like that they don't even know what they want !!!
Tell me what you want ?
Do you want a stable relationship or friendship ?
Then I recommend a smart girl as friend, no need to escalate
and be friend forever. She can help you in a lot of way,
a "soul mate".
But if you want some kissing or sex ?
then I recommend a younger girl around 20+, no more than 26 ...
and flirt with them, they are young and beautiful, good body
and no worry about future, confident ...
Those are the girlfriend type, have passionate kiss and even good sex ...
if things change, move on, get another one, they are young, you
wont have regret if you leave them... since they can handle themselve
very fast and get a new bf fast ...
OK, if you want a wife, different story ...
you need to have the same value system, similar style of life, similar
angles to this world, of course, staying together and sleep with her
daily, you have to handle the bads and goods also ...
Get a lady who can match all those, think about if she lost the looks,
do you still want to be with her, think about if her hair is all white,
do you want to still kiss her ... think about if you are broke and bald,
will she still follow you and support you ....
then she is the wife ....!
Don't waste too much time on all those "YOU ARE NOT MY CUP OF TEA" ladies...
I know you are a fine young man, but may not be the type like andy lau or
aaron kwok ... so take it easy ... get a girl that care about your heart more,
your talent and skill ... your career or money ...
LEARNING HOW TO MAKE A GIRL FEEL IMPORTANT AND LAUGH IS VERY IMPORTANT .... You have to learn how to become more creative and playful
with words ... and verbal conversation....
If you like her now, TELL HER, don't waste time ... Once a girl just treat you as friend,
you are always friend ... no way to move up ...
you have to take her by surprise .... when she is confused, push more, and make
her no defense ...
Yes, remote relationship is tough, but phone call once or twice a day ... it can be very nice... when you are back in HK, you can even have a good meeting with her ...
if she is open ... you can have "honey moon" with her, good sex good everything ...
Just learn to open yourself, and FORGET ABOUT THE PAST EXPERIENCE !!!
MOVE ON SO MANY GOOD LADIES AROUND ...
Good luck
alien
