自從同之前個男友分手後,覺得d男人好賤......

失戀唔開心好正常，尤其是那個是賤男人，當然會情緒低落，只是暫時性的就好了。就讓自己痛快的傷心一場、大哭一場，然後就可以收拾心情重新上路，繼續過應有的生活了。

我都贊成你的睇法，點解一定要忘記呢，愈要刻意去忘記即表示你愈在乎這個人，就更加難忘記他。時間是治療一切傷口的萬用良藥，隨着時間推移那個人就會自然淡出，留下的只是唏噓。況且兩個人一齊的時候總算有過快樂，就記住快樂的時刻吧，亦記住他的下賤，好讓自己下次不會重複犯錯，帶眼識人，找一個真心愛你的好男人。

你不要因為唔好彩遇到一個賤男人而對大部人都感失望。一樣米養百樣人，人有好有壞，錯認衰人咪當自己鬼遮眼囉，最多下次聰明點。世界上還有很多好人呢，這種想法對其他好人很不公平呢。

雖然你心態的轉變真的很巨大，但應該還未去到要睇心理醫生的地步吧。人總有開心和唔開心的時候，如果唔開心都若無其事反而才不正常。即管找些朋友傾訴一下吧，但不要絮絮不休，說出來後總會舒服一點，或許亦可得到別人的支持和鼓勵。找些自己喜歡的事情去做吧，這樣會開心一點，亦不會有太多空閒時間顧影自憐。給自己一個時限吧，就6個月吧，如果真的很傷；要自己在6個月內慢慢收拾好心情，一步一步回復舊日的自己，6個月後就不准自己再自暴自棄了，超過6個月後就必定要迫自己重新振作。不要因一個衰男人而給自己太大影響，不值得呢。不要再呆在家裏食嘢了，呆在家裏想想他的壞也可以，再想想在這件事上學到啲咩，再想想自己跟住要點樣做，再想想點樣可以康復過來，也可以看看電視，聽聽收音機，看電影、睇漫畫、讀報紙，然後再找朋友出去玩玩吧。漸漸地你就可以重新站起來，然後就可以開始一段新的感情呢。

點解你會覺得D男人好賤.......其實你咁做好浪費時間,覺得D男人好賤,不如比心機做嘢揾錢好過哪.自己有咗"成就"同"自信"到時就唔會care about 男人,^_^ 咁你就唔會理佢賤定唔賤 ok
""加油""""加油""""加油""""加油""

一個林大~~咩鳥都會有~~
有壞既鳥~亦都必定有好既鳥~
比你遇到個壞既~~只係你一時唔好彩~
冇人會成世都只係遇到好人~亦冇人會成世都只係遇到衰人~

你冇辦法改變社會既人~~但你可以改變自己既態度~心情~
人生在世幾十年~佢只不過係一個過客~
就當佢係教你上左一課既人~佢賤~唔代表所有人都賤~
好男人唔會死晒~

既然唔再鍾意佢~~唔好比佢影響到你~
唔好為佢放棄認識其實好男人既機會~~
而且愛情唔係人生既全部~
你仲有朋友~仲有屋企人~

發生咩事都好~~開心唔開心都好~生活都係要過~
咁點解唔開心d~以一個輕鬆既心情~客觀既態度去睇呢個世界~

你會係到問~~會想去睇醫生~~證明你知道自己既諗法唔正確~~
都未算好嚴重~~
多d同人傾下計~~講出自己正真既諗法~~~
你唔講~冇人會知你諗咩~~~

如果需要~~都可以搵個心理醫生傾下~~

you should't not be care about it .Because thre are alot of good man in the world.
so feel bater.

nothing serious, all are normal, this is because your importance is based on
your relationship. Get something to do ...
there are so many good guys in this world, so you don't need to disappoint
with just one stupid guy who does not treasure you.

MOVE ON, GET A NEW RELATIONSHIP is the only way to solve most problem.
DOCTOR will always said that you have problem and please do not take
those stupid drug, they will make you more in depression.

Friends around you may not be able to help, because they are not professional.
Get back in shape, and make yourself very beautiful ...
or exercise more to release the rage and energy....

Of course, forget about him, if he take off, let him be ...
as long as you dont have a BB with him, things are ok ...
remember the goods, and forget the bads ....

physical relationship is nothing once you have more ...
think about you can get a more handsome guy with better height and better muscle,
more money, even a car, or even a house ...
why not ....
being single is nice ... so you don't need to stuck with one stupid guy.
always look like a butterfly, only rest on the best flower you think he deserve it...
sex is ok, just make sure protection is done, no bb easy ...

Hope you find your love and move on in valentine la....

betray and self-denial is very normal ... dont let people scare you...
I have friends, took her 3 years to get out the past ...
but some people can take 10 years or short 1 week ...
just make sure not to compare and think too much.

take care la

alien