這樣女家要求會不會太多?

除咗餅咭好似多咗D, 其他都不是太過份.
我知道其實好多父母, 要咗的禮金都俾返女兒做嫁妝.
可能女家家人擔心女兒, 故試吓你的誠意. 咁你試試, 坦白地與她家人傾下, 你的經濟狀況可否負擔到所有使費, 如果要借貸攪婚禮, 咪你兩個婚後好辛苦.

屋企唔算有錢要俾十萬蚊禮金同一百打餅咭又多得濟, 我結婚都無擺酒啦, 禮金都係3萬咋, 我老公仲問我俾幾多禮金好, 你女朋友應該幫吓口.

咁你要同佢傾傾需要咁多餅咭做乜喇
如果冇用既話冇謂浪費金錢吧

Ask your gf to tell her parents, you need to get a loan in order to fullfil their request. That means after you two are married, your gf need to work very hard and has to live without things in order to repay the loan.

本人覺得似買女同玩野多D,而且你女友應該知道你嘅能力有限, 如果佢都唔幫你哋嘅將來著想,就叫佢等吓先啦! 反正女人係唔等嘅(老嘅問題).

另外,你得七千一個月,又要養父母, 又要食, 又要住, 又要去街, 又要結婚.......無限嘅開支, 要等幾耐,心照啦!

同埋, 現今社會好少會要齊禮金、酒席、餅咭,所以真係要認真同你女友商量...商量...

我朋友個家姐嫁醫生都係俾4萬禮金女家咋,唔通你外夫、外母唔鍾意你or你女友係徐子其2號? 終生大事要考慮清楚呀老友!!

女家有時要求咁多...都係因為想個女嫁得風光d.....等人地知道佢個女嫁得唔差.....佢地都係愛女ja....你諗下啦...人地父母咁辛苦養到個女咁大個....然後嫁左比你...以後就跟你住跟你姓......當然唔想個女嫁得咁寒酸架啦.....
不過呢..十萬禮金真係太多啦....而家物價又高...你月入又唔多...儲得錢黎比禮金唔通唔駛擺酒咩!!!都係啦....你搵女友幫幫口....睇下佢父母有冇得收順d....如果儲落d錢都比晒做禮金...就算夠錢結婚..但係第時點生活喎......