Of course save your wife. It's hard to find another woman who you would love after you have lost your wife. your wife and baby are both important but if you really have to give up one of them of course your wife. because you love her and she loves you.. If you save the baby then he/she would have no mother that's not fair to the baby so it's even more worse. listen to us, just save your wife and try to have another baby in the future, then your family will eventually become a "COMPLETE" family.