一個好有魅力, 好多女lum嘅男人(點樣突圍而出??)

2007-01-30 8:46 am
我識左個男仔, 唔算熟, 佢靚仔, 温柔, 細心, 好有智識, 人又好, 談笑風生, 好有魅力. 身邊好多朋友都lum 佢, 大家對佢嘅評價都話係好男人, 賭, 飲,吹都唔會(嫖就唔知, 佢話自己無作過反喎). d 女仔會圍住佢. 我想呢種男人一定有無數比女電嘅經驗.
問: 如果你係呢種男人, 若然有女電你, 你會點? 比咩反應人?
有個fd, 勁lum佢, 我地睇得出, 估個男嘅都feel到啦, 雖然男似乎未lum女嘅, 但對女仍然好nice, 無避佢噃.
問: 男人咩嘢心態呀?
其實我都用過眼神電過佢架(互相凝視住對方講嘢好耐), 直覺佢有touch.但過後佢避我, 擦身而過時都避望我.why? 好唔開心. 佢對其他lum佢嘅女仔都無咁. 我無行? 我都未向佢表示d咩?其實我都有人贊我靚女架, 都有人撩下架
問: 邊類型嘅女仔先可以吊到呢類男人嘅胃口? 突圍而出?.(佢似係正經型)
如果男仔暗中鍾意左其中一個, 點樣睇得出?
更新1:

其實我自己同其他朋友都感覺到, 我同個男仔相處方式係唔同d. 唔係佢對我特別好, 反而係對我特別苛刻, 鍾意激下我, 而我又唔似其他女仔lum 佢lum 到出面, 而係寸寸貢. 不過我感覺到, 雖然係咁, 我地有機會相處時係幾多笑容, 幾開心架. 不過閒時就避來避去 (我都係怕醜類). 直覺話比我聽佢對我好似有好感, 但理智話我知佢唔係, 因為當男仔鍾意一個女仔時, 係會對佢殷勤, 主動, 關愛, 甚至展開追求. 而且收風佢巳經有一個拍左多年拖嘅女友, 但唔知現在仲有無.

回答 (3)

2007-01-30 7:05 pm
✔ 最佳答案
(1) 如果你係呢種男人, 若然有女電你, 你會點? 比咩反應人?
答: 如果對方唔係自己想要果一類, 可能會扮唔知, 唔過電.... 當睇唔到.... 以正常社交禮儀去接觸身邊所有人.....

(2) 有個fd, 勁lum佢, 我地睇得出, 估個男嘅都feel到啦, 雖然男似乎未lum女嘅, 但對女仍然好nice, 無避佢噃.
問: 男人咩嘢心態呀?
答: 無避, 有時只係出於禮貌.... 唔通個女仔電佢, 佢忽然遮住對眼話「唔好」咩.....

(3) 其實我都用過眼神電過佢架(互相凝視住對方講嘢好耐), 直覺佢有touch.但過後佢避我, 擦身而過時都避望我.why?
答: 佢咁做, 有兩個極端的可能性... 一係佢都鐘意妳, 但怕羞, 緊張妳的眼光, 怕尷尬, 另一方面係佢唔鐘意妳, 怕望妳會令妳會錯意..... 不過, 無論係佢點諗, 都肯定係佢已經收到妳 signal.... 如果佢對其他女仔唔係咁, 即係妳响佢心目中係 special, 但是好是壞, 好難講....

(4) 問: 邊類型嘅女仔先可以吊到呢類男人嘅胃口? 突圍而出?.(佢似係正經型)
答: 呢層要問佢本人至知.... 甚至佢本人都唔知, 因為佢心目中的理想女神未出現..... 至於妳話佢係正經男人, 咁梗係斯文大方的女仔會較有優勢.... 我諗佢唔會對又煙又酒又粗口的女人有興趣掛....

(5) 如果男仔暗中鍾意左其中一個, 點樣睇得出?
答: 男仔只要唔係太怕羞, 都會對自己喜歡的人主動一點.... 例如主動接近佢, 又或者主動幫個女仔咁囉.....

--> 後話:
其實呢種男仔雖然吸引, 但佢又俾唔俾到安全感妳呢?
妳要面對咁多女仔競爭, 妳又可唔可以信佢不受誘惑?
最重要係, 妳究竟了解佢有幾多先? 睇來, 妳似乎同佢仍然只係點頭之交咋喎..... 有冇同佢單獨見面, 或者傾電話先? 如果無, 妳又點知佢會唔會對妳有興趣呀?
2007-01-30 11:20 am
^_^,
haha,
問: 如果你係呢種男人, 若然有女電你, 你會點? 比咩反應人?
Ans: Everyone has different feeling, so no one can tell what is in his head.
However, according to my experience, although a girl patronises him, he would not response much, it is because he doesn’t like other say he gains favour from those girls.

有個fd, 勁lum佢, 我地睇得出, 估個男嘅都feel到啦, 雖然男似乎未lum女嘅, 但對女仍然好nice, 無避佢噃.
問: 男人咩嘢心態呀?
Ans: May be, he is thinking something like “only fall in love with the best one”
Refusing the girl directly could hurt her, so he just tried to refuse her in another way.

其實我都用過眼神電過佢架(互相凝視住對方講嘢好耐), 直覺佢有touch.但過後佢避我, 擦身而過時都避望我.why? 好唔開心. 佢對其他lum佢嘅女仔都無咁. 我無行?
Ans: To be honest, I think you are stupid. (sorry…) if two persons/people look at each other for long, don’t you think it is meaningless? Why don’t you do something?
Ultimately, you just want to know does he like you, so why don’t you go and ask him?
As simple as that…^_^


我都未向佢表示d咩?其實我都有人贊我靚女架, 都有人撩下架
問: 邊類型嘅女仔先可以吊到呢類男人嘅胃口? 突圍而出?.(佢似係正經型)
如果男仔暗中鍾意左其中一個, 點樣睇得出?
Ans: haha…Again, everyone has different feeling, so no one can tell what is in his head.
Yet, I can tell u a hint to steal his heart^_^

You could, that is, tell him you like him, and ask what kind of girls does he like. Tell him that you will change to what he likes, and just give you some time.
During the interval, you have to amend your way; ask him how you get on…

DON’T LIE TO HIM!!
Good luck to you, and I hope my answer could help u in some ways.
^_^
參考: some psy, and sometheory, and some exp...
2007-01-30 9:33 am
問: 如果你係呢種男人, 若然有女電你, 你會點? 比咩反應人?
答: 禮貌的回禮, 但不一定會有動心的感覺, social一下

問: 男人咩嘢心態呀?
答: 男人其實任何時候都唔介意有人lum佢、電佢, 唔去避開都有幾個理由
有風度、佢冇女朋友、而且男人都係人,都希望有人對自己好、證明自己有魅力

問: 邊類型嘅女仔先可以吊到呢類男人嘅胃口? 突圍而出?
答: 引起他的好奇心, 想要得到你的感覺,你可以想想他要一個怎樣的女朋友, 你間中去扮演一下這個角色(不要太勉強自己) 都可以引起他的興趣

問: 如果男仔暗中鍾意左其中一個, 點樣睇得出?
答: 他對她就是不同 (或者嘗試同其他人一樣)
參考: 我是男的

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