我知道了自己的不是...(請基督徒幫忙)

I have the same problem too!

Sometimes I think I am smarter than some people (which makes me think that some people are very stupid). Sometimes I judge people (which makes me think that I am better than they are).

My way of fixing it is as soon as I realize my pride is taking my mind over, I confess and ask God for forgiveness. Also, I pray that God gives me wisdom so that I can get rid of my pride. Meanwhile, I think of people who are actually smarter and nicer than I am there are lots of them!!!!!), I then would realize that I really don't have much to boast of.

In addition, wise people does boast (Proverbs and Ecclesiastes have tons of great teaching) and boasting is a sign of being lack of love (love does not boast ---1 Corinthians 13). Therefore, it once again shows that I am NOT as clever, wise, and intelligent as I thought myself to be. So, really, I have much more reasons to be humble than自大.

This is how I 改過來 (still trying... but I think I am improving ^-^). Hope it helps. And of course, I will pray for you. Let's grow together in Christ~

　　哈哈我都十分自大。我做了這樣的祈禱都好耐，求神幫我，我諗神係幫我一點一點去改，藉著日常的經歷、別人的分享、聖經的真理.....不過我認為發現自己自大就是出路。
　　另外自大這種個人特質，如果被耶穌改變，可變成一些好的特質：如堅持、自信、幫助被欺壓者伸張正義、不輕言放棄．．．．所以我鼓勵你，以自己性格特點，多做一ｄ目標正確的事，神會好用得著你的。

首先你先靜下來，想想自己為何自大。是自己真的了不起，或是其實由自卑產生。你怕別人看不起你？當你以自大作為回應和防衛工具後，你的心真的得到你預期的感受嗎？

如果你相信世上有神，相信祂創造世界和萬物，相信祂創造你和我，你便明白我們沒甚麼可以自誇，因為我們都是被造的。神創造人，但人就是自大，希望與神同等(吃分辨善惡樹果子就是想看到神能夠看的)，結果被神趕出伊甸園。

雖然神趕人出伊甸園，但神重來沒有放棄我們。祂以耶穌基督釘十字架，為我們贖罪，以致我們可以與神重新建立關係。只要你今天願意放低自己(也沒必要繼續自大)，承認自己是個無力自救的罪人，神便會再一次與你同在。到時你自然不會再自大，因為你不雖再與地球上任何一個人比較，沒有人本事得過你背後的創造神，上帝。再者，當你成為基督徒後，你更會經歷其他一些意想不到的恩典，令你對人生改觀(我信主前也是個很自大的人，現在回望很可笑)。

信我，你以後做人會輕鬆得多。

向上帝祈禱都係方法之一.....但你既祈禱只係令你覺得內心不會因為呢個自大而煩惱..
上帝唔會直接幫你改善自大...應該只會比力量你去積極面對...除左依賴上帝外...都要靠自己腳踏實地去搵方法...你可以主動同你值得信懶既人傾..就係上帝透過呢d人去扶助你的..

有一點很重要,,,是要激法自己既愛....識得關心人...不過最難的都係應用出來...
如果你唔珍惜某些事某些人...你只讓---自大的缺點控制自己.
這樣你永遠都唔會有甚麼改善,你對事對人的心態不好,,,他們就會造成浪費的同時,亦都會對你自己的生命,智力,情感造成浪費......................