I like plastic tip because it is easy to bounce. But you must prepare it will drop out if it wears out. The wood tip will be too rough to touch after a period of usage like the shaft.
Usually, the instructor will ask you to buy 5A. Some men like to take 5B. 7A is thinner and lighter. It depends on the weight of the drum stick you like to take.
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