She's hurt, I love her?
2007-01-06 11:39 pm
She told me she tired of depending on guys to make her feel important and she keep getting hurt in relationship. What should I do?
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2007-01-06 11:42 pm
✔ 最佳答案
Try to play a bad guy with her. I mean just pretend. Seems like she likes bad guys even knowing that they are hurting her. So be a good guy, but pretend that you are not. So this way she will feel comfortable with you, but in the end, when she'll understand everything, she will love you, for who you are, and she will give you her heart honestly and completely.
2007-01-06 11:52 pm
Tell her that she is important, with or without a man in her life. Suggest that she can build a stronger self esteem and foundation for her life by participating in activities for her, her feelings, her growth as an individual. I've realized that to be happy with a partner you have to know and love yourself first. Let her know that you'll be by her side during her journey of self discovery. I believe that along the way an opportunity will arise to let her know that you love her. Good luck.
2007-01-06 11:47 pm
Just be honest with her and treat her sometimes like a "best friend" and not a "girlfriend". Find out her interests, hobbies, and skills... join her in them, ask her to teach you if necessary. Don't try to make her feel "important"... just make her feel loved and happy ^.~;;
2007-01-06 11:46 pm
just give her sometime. let her know that you don't want to hurt her and you just want to get to know her more. be there by her side when she needs you but don't make a big deal of things. just get to the friends stage and then let her come to you don't force her to make a choice by asking her to go out with you over and over again. that will just make her think you are impatient and it will push her away.
2007-01-06 11:43 pm
...she shouldnt need to rely on anyone to make her feel important...thats a challange only she can provide for herself.....
............................its called self-respect......
............................its called self-respect......
2007-01-06 11:42 pm
make her feel secure and make her see that you love her and that you'll alwaysz be there for her.
2007-01-06 11:42 pm
No one should wait for someone to make them feel important this person has issues. If you love her let her know but remember you cannot make her feel important only she can you cannot fill the void in her life.
2007-01-06 11:42 pm
Show her you love her. She will probably have trust issues so I'd take it slow with her.
2007-01-06 11:42 pm
give her my number
2007-01-06 11:42 pm
Prove her Wrong! We're not all bad apples. Show her that she can count on you! Be a Man!
2007-01-06 11:41 pm
be there for her when she needs someone to lean on
and when the time is right, tell her that u love her
and when the time is right, tell her that u love her
2007-01-06 11:41 pm
Well tell her you would never let that happen to her and make her feel secure about that and try your best to let it happen. Tell her she doesn't need a guy to be everything she already is, she doesn't need a guy for someone in her life to see her like that...but that you love her...=D
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