感情轉變 - 放手還是堅持

I agree with 聖情宗仁, he may have somebody already.

the only thing you can do if you want to save your marriage is, to stay calm and play your part as a wife better. Make your home comfortable for him to come back, and be gentle and understanding. You need to shine out your beauty, make yourself more attractive and confident. Don't be mad and shout at him, that will drive him away. Be charming and gracious, hopefully he will tell the difference. Give him time, don't push him for any decision.

Meanwhile, save up money for yourself just in case.

If at the end, he has to go, sit him down to talk about it gently. Don't ruin the relationship, you never know, he may come back one day.

You said 吵架的原因係大家對對方屋企人既立長唔同, have you really stood up for him when it comes to these matters? after you're married, you are separated from your parents and should make your own family priority. You should not let your parents' views have any impact on you two.

Hope it goes well. Good luck and God bless.

妳呢個情況, 好大可能係佢有另一個女人, 所以無論妳做什麼, 他都不會領情.....

我覺得妳係應該要改變, 變得更吸引, 但唔係要吸引佢, 而係令佢注意妳....
唔好放下自己的堅持, 妳越妥協, 男人會越覺得同妳一齊係無挑戰性....

好好打扮自己, 好好讓自己開心...
等佢留意妳, 等佢再次對妳有興趣, 可能更有效......

我ga意見係首先你要冷靜落來
呢個時候你為佢做幾多野都無用
只會對你更加反感.亦都俾d時間佢
可能佢都係一時衝動
等過幾日平覆返心情
大家再傾下
可能有唔同ga答案呢

以我既意見尼講
諗真ｄ大家原本係因咩而結婚，如果話分就分會５會兒戲左ｄ尼～！？
所以尼大家應該冷靜傾下，係米真係因ｄ甘小既事，就放棄２年既感情＾＾
結婚＋拍拖應該一齊左好耐，互相認識好深．如果因為甘而分，我就覺得．．．．．你一開始就擇錯人！
希望我尼個意見幫到你ｌａ～

你地拍左幾耐拖先結婚呢？結婚二年應該仲好恩愛，只吵一次就話已經唔
再愛你，唔再有感覺？你不覺得有問題咩？大家既感情及婚姻係有基礎，
如果因為一次吵架而唔再愛呢個人，可想而知，我不見得他很愛你．平日
你地感情如何，點過呢？以往沒有吵架咩？點解只吵一次就這樣對你呢？
婚姻不是兒戲，話結就結，話離就離，大家都要去維繫，問題可能一早己
經存在，只是今次吵架令他提起分開，講真，每對情侶，２公婆都會有吵
架，只是因為咩事而吵，大家沒有去解決問題，一直吵下去，吵得多，感
情幾好都會破裂

不知道你地有冇仔女呢？如果有，大家又原意因為仔女而再比次機會，
咁咪一齊囉，同佢講多次，但如果你地冇仔女，佢又堅持不想跟你一起，
你好難同佢長久下去，有人會因為仔女而維繫到感情，有人會因為仔女
的出生，而吵吵鬧鬧而分開，你想想，人生仲有好長既路，結婚才二年者，
以後既路你點過呢？如果佢一直都係咁，你同佢一齊都唔會開心，我自已
都結過婚，有個仔，但我同老公離左婚，因為我地感情出現好多問題，
又成日吵，吵完又係咪，不但解決不了問題，仲影響我同老公感情．．．
不知你同老公因咩事，個次係一件好大事嗎？咁快可以死心？？
感情唔係一朝一夕既事，總會有些事情是你地沒有解決，如果他堅持
只好放棄，你可以再跟他談一次，給他時間，我會讓你回來，
離婚都要分居的，不是說分開就可以分開，你可以用呢個時間比大家冷靜
下，呢段時間裏，可能你會仲好愛佢，或者對佢心淡都唔定，感情係雙方
的，其中一方唔想一齊，好難行埋下半生，你想想，你現在幾大呢？
人生流流長，不要太過執著

2007-01-06 13:15:19 補充：
如果你地一直都冇問題，只係個次吵架而說對你冇感覺，要分開這個人都經不起考驗，你點同佢做人世呢？咁快就碎？？女人的青春好寶貴，你應該想清楚才是

放手
,堅持只會朋友都無得做.

堅持

結婚,吵架一次就離婚,甘唔得架喎,互相忍下去!
一次就甘,叫佢以後唔好再結.

小小意見:你可以為左佢放棄所有野, 為他而改變,即係你好愛佢..唔好問網友喇=]你應該自己決定..