how to make friends

2007-01-06 2:04 am
how to make friends

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2007-01-06 2:10 am
✔ 最佳答案
第一、以德交友,患難與共:要如何交朋友呢?首先須問自己想交什麼樣的朋友。如果希望交到真心的朋友,就要拿出自己的真心,以道德、以義氣、以慈悲來交往;如此得來的朋友,在最緊要關頭時,大都能同甘共苦。所謂「患難見真情」,在最困頓的時候,還能不變初衷的支助扶持,才是真正的朋友。

第二、以誠交友,肝膽相照:和朋友相處,彼此要講究知心,講究坦誠,講究肝膽相照。雙方以真實的言語、真實的感情交往,擯除利害關係,擁有手足般的義氣情誼,能相知相惜,相互關愛,彼此扶助,就是真正的肝膽相照了。如戰國時的隱士田光,為助燕太子丹刺秦王,舉薦荊軻,更為守秘而刎頸,田光之忠誠,可謂肝膽相照。

第三、以知交友,見多識廣:見識廣博或具有專業知識的人,會受到朋友的尊重與信賴。同樣的,要結交有內涵的朋友,也要先充實自己的內涵;懂得隨時吸取新知的人,智慧容易開啟,也會吸引許多見多識廣的人到身邊來。劉禹錫之交往即是「談笑有鴻儒,往來無白丁,可以調素琴,閱金經。」

第四、以道交友,法樂融融:「道風德香傳千里」,有道德的人、有修養的人,無人不欣喜,不論遠近,大家都會爭相來親近。和他交往的人,也都會依他自勉,而得到提升,此即所謂「與善友交,入芝蘭之室,久而不聞其香,即與之化矣」。

中庸說:「待人以誠,感人以德,交人以善,這是率性之謂道。」朋友交往以誠以真,相待以禮以敬,相處以平以淡,相勉以學以道,都是交朋友的原則,所以交友之道有四點:

第一、以德交友,患難與共;

第二、以誠交友,肝膽相照;

第三、以知交友,見多識廣;

第四、以道交友,法樂融融。
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2007-01-06 3:58 am
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2007-01-06 2:46 am
SOFTEN. This word can help your make friends. An acronym (each letter stands for something) created by psychologist Arthur C. Wassmer, Ph.D, author of Making Contact, SOFTEN will remind you to:

Smile . "Smiling says I enjoy being with you," says Dr. Wassmer. "It's a voluntary act. Anyone can do it."

Open Posture . Let your body say your want to be friends. Uncross your arms and legs. The more open your posture, the more welcoming.

Forward Lean . If your lean toward people, they get the message that you're interested in them and they'll like your for it.

Touch. Touch is one of the most powerful nonverbal ways of communicating. Try shaking hands with two hands. Or, pat your friend on the back.

Eye Contact . Another potent way to express interest, attention and respect.

Nod . People love it when you nod when they're talking. It doesn't mean you agree, just that you're attentive.
2007-01-06 2:07 am
You can make friends by talking,asking them questions to understand them.


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