分手後應否聯絡?

2007-01-02 6:22 pm
分手後係咪真係最好暫時唔好再聯絡? 我同ex分左兩個月啦, 佢提出分手既, 但呢段期間我仲會keep住打俾佢, 挽留過兩次, 最後一次挽留係聖誕前, 仲約過佢出黎食飯一次, 尋日除夕我有send sms祝佢"happy new year"俾佢, 但佢都無回, 尋晚同今朝打俾佢都無人聽, 下午再打俾佢, 一接佢就話遲d打俾我, 態度有d冷淡, 都無同我講 "happy new year" , 我係咪唔應該再咁keep住咁搵佢, 係咪要俾個過渡期大家, 佢會唔會覺得我煩, 仲有無可能做朋友

回答 (8)

2007-01-02 6:37 pm
✔ 最佳答案
其實她的態度是對的, 我見過一些分手的人拖泥帶水, 反而令另一方以為有挽救的機會, 拖拉了一段很長的日子, 到最後以為可以挽的一方, 又失落又失了一些其中可以與其他異性發展的機會, 反而還害了人, 所以對方是不想害你有錯覺, 你亦不用不開心, 感情到了分手, 是不開心的, 但留 一個已經不愛你的人, 最後對人是沒意義的, 習慣性的事慢慢會淡下來的, 放開他, 你會有更好的機會.
2007-01-03 12:03 am
盡量唔好成日打比人
如果唔係連朋友都無乜機會做番
你搵一排唔好打比佢
因為你應該係有日日打比佢
如果你有一排唔打比佢
佢就會覺得好唔慣
話唔家仲會追番你
你要加油呀!!!
希望你可以同番佢一齊啦
^^
參考: 自己
2007-01-02 8:39 pm
她依期可能比較忙碌,你都係遲些少先搵佢比較好,暫時send sms俾佢,到農曆新年再去搵佢,或者到她家拜年啦
2007-01-02 6:40 pm
你可能認為佢會覺得你煩, 仲有無可能做朋友,但分手後可以做番朋友!(佢會原諒你~)
2007-01-02 6:40 pm
I think,

if you are a girl,
you better stop phoneing him,
cause if "佢提出分手既", that means he might have got a new girlfriend.
treat him only as your common friend,
do things to him as you would ususally treat the others.

if you are a boy,
you should stop phoneing her,
cause keep annoying a girl would cause great problem, "仲有無可能做朋友"
and wait for a period of time, ( 3weeks?")
2007-01-02 6:34 pm
依你的惰况 , 還是向前看,
忠告你一句 : 還是算了吧!

2007-01-02 10:38:58 補充:
其實仍可做朋友,不過單方面就不如算了吧!!
參考: 放眼美好明天吧!!
2007-01-02 6:32 pm
我應為你好暫時唔好再聯絡!
因為分手係一件令人悲傷的事
應該比大家冷靜d後,
問下佢雖然大家分左手,但還可以做朋友的......係咪?
參考: me
2007-01-02 6:32 pm
分手後真係最好暫時唔好再聯絡(平伏好心情)

你唔係唔應該再咁keep住咁搵佢(只係朋友,關心下)

要俾個過渡期大家(睇下個心情點)

佢唔會覺得你煩(只係有d煩既事要處理)

可能做朋友(分手再是朋友)

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