✔ 最佳答案
I had this kind of experience. Don't worry. You are not alone.
I had been asking my bf so many questions. Anything. He try to 逃避 but he still answered my phone. Then I called some hotlines to know what to do. At that time, I really wanted to die. The counsellor taught me to do the following:
1) Think of something that you really like to do. Force yourself to do it. (I like massage, facial, going to salon, watchingmovies alone..etc)
2) Try not to ask bf any questions. I liked to make clear a lot of things. But I tried not to called him and asked him anything. I changed my attitude and only concern, no complaints (its hard but I forced myself to do it). My bf feel I have changed then he began to talk to me more.
3) I let my bf go to anywhere he wants (before I do not want him to do that and also crying..etc) He was scared, but now I changed then he began to hold my hand again and go out with me.
4) Try to think positive and optimistic. If you always think negatively, then you won't feel happy. Think positive, then you will feel happy. There is a book call "Be happy to be yourself". Read it , do it and you will find yourself different. Also, another book called "戀愛的不安". I read it and I found that I do not see myself need to really stick on my bf.
If you still not feeling good, please call 2382 0000 (24 hours) or Monday to Friday (2:00pm - 10:00pm) at 2772 0047 (press 1 , then press 9) to talk to those counsellors. They might be able to help you.
I hope all these words can help and make you feel better.
Last thing, you can also pray to Jesus. He is always there to listen to you and accompany you. You are not alone. May God Bless you and Jesus loves you.
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