我喜歡上一個男孩

2006-12-29 9:14 am
我由暑假尾開始鐘意一個男仔到而家,雖然大家可以話越來越熟,每個禮拜都會有2次MSN倒,但係好多時都係我hi佢,大家又唔多話題,好驚佢覺得我煩。
我地一個禮拜有兩日會見面,佢會主動同我講野,唔知點解佢見面0個時會多野講過0係MSN。佢下年9月要去外國了,加上我知道有個女仔鐘意佢...... 如果要我表白我又一定唔敢,我可以點做?

回答 (3)

2006-12-29 1:33 pm
tell his fd
then his fd may tell him soon
2006-12-29 12:31 pm
first i think you need to be confident about yourself..but if you are the shy tpye..i sugguest you to write a letter or maybe a note to him...remember you said there is a next girl like him too...is she pretty..if she is not then tell her to back off...anyways...all i can tell you is be confident..because you might not going to see him again..just take my suggestion..write a letter or note to him..he might like you too...maybe he just dont know how to talk to you..maybe he is nervous around you... just write a letter or send an e-mail to him...good luck
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2006-12-29 10:35 am
我係一個男孩子, 未婚. 我試下以第旁觀者身份看你的情況.

我個人覺得三者關係的戀愛是痛苦的, 就你而言, 你要問一問你自己, 是否需要依賴他呢? 沒有佢在身邊, 會不會不習慣, 擾亂平時表現呢? (當然會啦, 你宜家很彷徨ma) 如果你知道你自己已經介入三者關係, 以你們的年紀(從"暑假"推斷), 是很難有一個固定而且兩者的關係. 但係無端端表白又怕嚇親佢, 甚至連朋友都冇得做, 最好不要即刻表白住. 現在是一個機會, 九月前這一段時間, 了解人地, 也同時了解自己多D, 究竟佢是否需要你, 還是你愛佢多D.

至於三者問題, 我建議你們三者坐低一起見面(不建議只有你同佢見面了), 傾一下誰繼續發展下去, 誰讓步, 還是做個朋友.(更遺憾的是, Teens 一眾 死都要撐到底, 死要面, 冇左佢唔得, 有時會發生這場面, 但不要太介意)

但有陣時太坦白會冇乜癮, 唔好玩ge~~~不過適量便可以. 呢個純粹個人看法, 冇乜野ge, 但最合適的對象始終是父母, 其次社工和老師, 佢地都係成人(我自己未係成年), 思想比較成熟, 有時年輕一代解決唔倒的問題, 成年人都會幫倒你ge, 不仿找一下他們啦~~~

祝你好運!!
參考: 旁觀者的角度

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